4) The duty of the parents is to look after the children, for every year that the kid is sentenced to in Juvenile Prison make sure the adult gets 1mth in prison as well."
Hey, this is going to reduce birth rate in SG.
4) The duty of the parents is to look after the children, for every year that the kid is sentenced to in Juvenile Prison make sure the adult gets 1mth in prison as well."
Yappy, you are borderline trolling...
I await the parent who can rebuke (emphasis added) the judge simply by saying that this is a courtroom, not a pulpit, and they are judges who are to pass verdicts and sentences, not give lectures and sermons.
Do we need rules and regulations to run a place?
Today's kids do not know the meaning of respect. They just demand it on a platter. :nono:
yes we do, and they can be found here
http://www.clubsnap.com/forums/showthread.php?t=63921
this thread is dangerously close to being locked and/or infractions given, please behave
it's this over-inflated sense of self-entitlement
a la
the world is our oyster, we will just rip the pearls out of it
on another note, it is not just kids, if you haven't noticed :nono: a lot of adults also do the same thing, despite having no credibility or credentials, they like to dish out misleading advice with the promise that it will be useful. and then they act pompously, like the world owes them a living; fact is, the world might even be better off without the existence of such people :bsmilie:
if anything, i would think that at the very least, a judge is not selected by picking a lottery number or playing bingo - there is much more credibility to what he or she has to say, when it comes to morality; after all, the legal system was founded based on morality, among other things (like ensuring equal rights).. and if our ultimate executors of the law are told to shut up on moral values or behaviour of someone being presented in court.. then i would think it is a sad day indeed.
it's this over-inflated sense of self-entitlement
a la
the world is our oyster, we will just rip the pearls out of it
on another note, it is not just kids, if you haven't noticed :nono: a lot of adults also do the same thing, despite having no credibility or credentials, they like to dish out misleading advice with the promise that it will be useful. and then they act pompously, like the world owes them a living; fact is, the world might even be better off without the existence of such people :bsmilie:
back to the topic then; you ask if the judge should be strict to juvenile delinquents - i was a little puzzled as to what you meant;The orignal intention of the thread is to look at the understanding of the general public on juvenile delinguent. But sad to say some took the opportunity the critise the judicial system. If that is the case, we should close the thread.
If i am taking photo of that middle finger kid, just develop the photo and give to the school. See how long the boy can laugh...
Back to the judge scolding teenager issue, I think it is a good touch. One of the replies here said that if u need someone to scold your kid for you, you have failed as a parent. Alot of these kids are supposed to be Beyond Parental Control (BPC) cases where the parents declare to the juvenile court that "hey i can't handle my kid, pls help me" It is a failure of the parents, but more importantly a sign that the parents still care enough to want someone to help them with their kid (the converse of parents simply using BPC as the easy way out is of course possible, but let's not go to that now)
So alot of parents dun wanna use BPC, cos they fail to recognise the impact of their kid's wrongdoings "let him be lah, he will mature soon" Either that or they paiseh to use BPC cos it will show that they are lousier parents. End of day kena 01 x good one from judge, see which one more paiseh
Seriously, to these kids? Warning?Sorry for not making myself clear!
Just to share, I have the privilege to attend some of the hearings, some of the juveniles went in slipper, multi-coloured hair and when the judge spoke to them, they showed no respect.
And also when they are brought to face the judge, they would have committed a string of other serious offences including and most often beyond parental control.
Just an illustration, for a shoplifting offence, an adult can be brought to the court the next day whereas for a juvenile, the police, the school, MOE HQ, the parents, self-help group, MCYS and the police will be involved. Most of the time, they do not go to the court but they are often given warning by the authority.
In the first place, the parent should be strict to their kids, if the kids really went out of control, personally felt that the judge have every rights to be strict.
In my days, canning by teachers and parents was a very common thing, although i disagree that we should go back to that way, but some basic discipline should be drilled into them.
Maybe i'm from the old school..... if they CIM, sent them to RTC.
U are right. Parents are the main culprits as the kid will emulate the adult and parents are the main figure. If the parents smoked(my apology to smokers), the kid will pick up the habit too!
my parents don't smoke, but i do
my parents drink alcohol but i don't
so your theory is flawed
it should be "would likely" instead of "will"