I guess you can't have one camera that appeals to everyone. When I first bought the EP3 I thought the same, then I realised that my amateur shooting skills meant I was afraid to use the flash and liked to use the EVF to understand the FOV I was shooting at. In fact, I never once used my EP3 flash in about 7 months of owning it, and in fact used my VF-2 every single day. I found myself really wanting a camera with integrated EVF and a removable flash that could bounce, if I ever wanted to use it. I might have gone Panny for the integrated EVF, but I like IBIS and the Oly art filters, both of which look to have been further improved with this camera.
Aesthetics-wise, I must admit I'm not much of a fan of the Sony ultra-modern look. I like my cameras looking old-school, and seriously thought about buying the X100 for that reason...
This, in other words, is the perfect camera for me.