Like what i said, if you have an eloquant, well groom daughter who stands elegantly 1.85m tall and is beauty in every school and every club she goes to. Winning the pagent contest would not be your ultimate goal for her life. If you have a choice, you want her lead a better life.
I think I'd lock her up at home with 12 padlocks till she's 21 to keep the ah beng army from trying to "score" her. Hahahaha!
(just kidding, all kids should learn to deal with life...)