Is death the solution
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Del_CtrlnoAlt
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soma said:
nope... i always have a spare body... just in case of emergency...
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I dont really consider PEOPLE who commit suisides a coward.....I think they are VICTIMS....VICTIMS of stupidity.
This kind of stupidity could be due to poor managements of problems and emotions of oneself.
We must always remember, the process of killing oneself may just take minutes or even seconds....but the sorrow you bring to those who love you is a long term effect. If you got
personal /emotional turmoil living in u, finding it crippling you....always look for friends totalk .....NO friends?? then look for councellors.....It will definitely be better than building up those confusion in yourself.
Problems is part of life, we are emotional beings, surely we will feel confuse at times; even many many times. Remember!! thats just a PHASE of life. You can overcome it, stay mature!! stay Calm!! Stay ALIVE.......DONt do stupid things....
Cowards are not those who kill themselves,they are those who dont dare or care to help counsel a friend in their depressions; taking their friends problems lightly. When something unfortunate really do happen(eg commited suicide), the first thing that come across their mind is:"his death has nothing to do with me" or "if he wants to die, let him die la, he dont tresure his life anyway !!"......cmone no man is an island.....loneliness bring forth lots of bad effects, no one likes it, trust me. "But he always dont wanna share his problem waaat!!", you may comment. this is just thathe dont know how to express, or he dont think you would understand. Get someone more experience to help. FEI YUE councelling centre is just one of the many councelling centre around.....If a depressed friend keep SIlence or isolate from you, its not that he dont want u to help, its just his way of "OUTCRY for help". Find ways to help them.Dont run away from THEM....cos thats part of a phase OF YOUR LIFE... to "HELP" or direct him/her to "HELPS"!!!!
U and I are not perfect. We are all weak in our own individual ways, and therefore different people "LACKS" and "NEEDS" different things. We dont judge or despise when ppl lack stamina to run or Lacks ability to score academically, do you remember the last time you pace your fellow comrades in IPPT just for a pass? or coming out for group studies to help answer their doubts, so that they wont fail? Same thing we shall not ignore friends who emotionally need a help.
Pleeeaaaase.................dont let go of your friend so easily............
This kind of stupidity could be due to poor managements of problems and emotions of oneself.
We must always remember, the process of killing oneself may just take minutes or even seconds....but the sorrow you bring to those who love you is a long term effect. If you got
personal /emotional turmoil living in u, finding it crippling you....always look for friends totalk .....NO friends?? then look for councellors.....It will definitely be better than building up those confusion in yourself.
Problems is part of life, we are emotional beings, surely we will feel confuse at times; even many many times. Remember!! thats just a PHASE of life. You can overcome it, stay mature!! stay Calm!! Stay ALIVE.......DONt do stupid things....
Cowards are not those who kill themselves,they are those who dont dare or care to help counsel a friend in their depressions; taking their friends problems lightly. When something unfortunate really do happen(eg commited suicide), the first thing that come across their mind is:"his death has nothing to do with me" or "if he wants to die, let him die la, he dont tresure his life anyway !!"......cmone no man is an island.....loneliness bring forth lots of bad effects, no one likes it, trust me. "But he always dont wanna share his problem waaat!!", you may comment. this is just thathe dont know how to express, or he dont think you would understand. Get someone more experience to help. FEI YUE councelling centre is just one of the many councelling centre around.....If a depressed friend keep SIlence or isolate from you, its not that he dont want u to help, its just his way of "OUTCRY for help". Find ways to help them.Dont run away from THEM....cos thats part of a phase OF YOUR LIFE... to "HELP" or direct him/her to "HELPS"!!!!
U and I are not perfect. We are all weak in our own individual ways, and therefore different people "LACKS" and "NEEDS" different things. We dont judge or despise when ppl lack stamina to run or Lacks ability to score academically, do you remember the last time you pace your fellow comrades in IPPT just for a pass? or coming out for group studies to help answer their doubts, so that they wont fail? Same thing we shall not ignore friends who emotionally need a help.
Pleeeaaaase.................dont let go of your friend so easily............
Del_CtrlnoAlt
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Sion said:
hmm whats the quality of each one? :bsmilie:
Nisa
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Do anyone know what is depression?
how does a person who is in depression feel?
how do ppl in depression cope?
Do you ever have depression?
Ever surf the net to find ways of dying?
Well.... if you don't, then don't say things about ppl being stupid and so on.
it is not a funny thing nor something that can be taken lightly.
Sure, Committing sucide is selfish, but to have a person live in a life worse than death and that's not selfish.
how does a person who is in depression feel?
how do ppl in depression cope?
Do you ever have depression?
Ever surf the net to find ways of dying?
Well.... if you don't, then don't say things about ppl being stupid and so on.
it is not a funny thing nor something that can be taken lightly.
Sure, Committing sucide is selfish, but to have a person live in a life worse than death and that's not selfish.
Nisa said:
Depression can mean a mental state characterized by a pessimistic sense of inadequacy and a despondent lack of activity. It can also mean a long-term economic state characterized by unemployment and low prices and low levels of trade and investment. A sunken or depressed geological formation. Sad feelings of gloom, loss of loved ones, being abused or cheated. Also inadequacy in performance both in sports and studies. A state of depression and anhedonia so severe as to require clinical intervention.
To cope with depression the person must find someone to talk to and who can understand the situation more attentively. There is a lot of pleasure and fun out there waiting for you. There are many people who want to be your friends capable of looking from your point of view. Never be too attached to things and people.
Just be open and let go, forgive others as you would want others to forgive you. Repent your mistakes and dump your sorrows to the trash bin. You are made to love yourself and you are the Creators special creation. God designed this planets so beautifully just so you could live in it. You are the focus of HIS love, and the most valuable of all his creation.
That is the human being other than all other conscious being in the galaxy.
Understand that the principle of cosmic justice and the law of cause and effect. The maxim that a person reaps what he has sown, the doctrine of karma, a common principle that the world is governed by justice and your fate in this life. However once you discover that there is a God and that he made you for a reason, your life will have profound meaning!
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Unrighteousness, practiced in this world,
does not at once produce its fruit; but, like a cow,
advancing slowly, it cuts off the roots of him who committed it.
Repent and ask to be forgiven! Though we are all products of
our past but we don't have to be prisonsers to it. You think you
are useless and worthless now. But you will never know you can
do amazing thing with the rest of your life when you start to be
aware of your higher self.
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