Got customer like diz..... can vomit blood...

[soma]

Good job. You have my support. Barbaric ppl should be dealt with the barbaric way :bsmilie:

wah lao eh.. now his action become barbaric...:sweat: :sweat:

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

Get them to transfer the money over first den print lah... wah lao eh...

den u lagi contradict lor.. ;p

my suggestion is, just ask them for a 1 time offer, 2x or nothing... short & sweet, do their own printing... no point going to do extra mile so that they can pin u down again lor... just not worth it... anyway, to them, photos ain't important... who knows... they might ROM again, with another partner of course... ;p

 

[Klose]

You shld have made them sign a contract first :bsmilie:

 

[michhy]

very unprofessional to delete the images due to sheer anger.
but i also agree that you should not give-in to them.

 

[righton]

very unprofessional to delete the images due to sheer anger.
but i also agree that you should not give-in to them.

just reformat the cf card because of blind anger at that time

The images are backed into my portable image tank but really in no mood to even transact the deal with them anymore after going thru this indignity.... dun even feel like transferring it to my PC HDD

Anyway I think they oredi took stock of all the friends' and relatives' pocket P&S images and my guess is that their images cannot make it because the grooms mummy called me and apologized personally yesterday. ( thats why I just now relating my story here in CS).

Will likely cool down sufficiently by this weekend and settle with her (oredi told her tat the pics are safe and she promised me a 'give face' ang pow over the $200 fee)

I mean, I was really hoping that the groom will act as a mediator and tell me things like not to listen to these old uncles.... but he was like so utterly no-balls and kowtow to them all the way..... even had to get his mummy to call me to settle...... I honestly think his wife should re-consider if she has married a real man who is mature enuf to make the 'right justice' decisions. Really sad that his mum is more 'gentleman' than the men themselves.

I am only 1.61m short and 55kg with glasses and half way thru poly so u will know I'm in my very early 20s. But why are little bamboo poles like us at my age getting treated like this sometimes?

Knnbzzzz to think that I even went thru the trouble of ironing my own long sleeve shirt (my mum almost faint tat i even iron anything), put on my dad's tie and pair of leather dress shoes and groomed myself smartly and respectfully to show them respect at the occassion.

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

righton... NPNT.... sorry... cannot help it... ;p

 

[righton]

sorry bro wats NPNT ?

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

sorry bro wats NPNT ?

No Pic No Talk!

 

[afbug]

Many Singaporeans are still like that. How is the service industry gonna improve with such customers? It works both ways. I see people complain about bad service, granted, some are valid but how about the conduct of some of those customer who complained in the 1st place?

Treat it as an experience man. Next time, be careful a little. Time wasted=money.

 

[soma]

just reformat the cf card because of blind anger at that time

The images are backed into my portable image tank but really in no mood to even transact the deal with them anymore after going thru this indignity.... dun even feel like transferring it to my PC HDD

Anyway I think they oredi took stock of all the friends' and relatives' pocket P&S images and my guess is that their images cannot make it because the grooms mummy called me and apologized personally yesterday. ( thats why I just now relating my story here in CS).

Will likely cool down sufficiently by this weekend and settle with her (oredi told her tat the pics are safe and she promised me a 'give face' ang pow over the $200 fee)

I mean, I was really hoping that the groom will act as a mediator and tell me things like not to listen to these old uncles.... but he was like so utterly no-balls and kowtow to them all the way..... even had to get his mummy to call me to settle...... I honestly think his wife should re-consider if she has married a real man who is mature enuf to make the 'right justice' decisions. Really sad that his mum is more 'gentleman' than the men themselves.

I am only 1.61m short and 55kg with glasses and half way thru poly so u will know I'm in my very early 20s. But why are little bamboo poles like us at my age getting treated like this sometimes?

Knnbzzzz to think that I even went thru the trouble of ironing my own long sleeve shirt (my mum almost faint tat i even iron anything), put on my dad's tie and pair of leather dress shoes and groomed myself smartly and respectfully to show them respect at the occassion.

Hahaha..a great lesson of adult live, so you also know your parents do get sh*t sometime to make the money to grow you guy.:bsmilie: Better use some of the $ for them.:thumbsup:

 

[Hobbesyeo]

sheesh.. I feel for your situation. And I agree, that groom's got no balls and no honor.

Just a tho, given that they were so "gangster" in the first place, could your next meeting with them be an ambush? What if the mother turns up with that same two uncles? :sweat:

 

[soma]

sheesh.. I feel for your situation. And I agree, that groom's got no balls and no honor.

Just a tho, given that they were so "gangster" in the first place, could your next meeting with them be an ambush? What if the mother turns up with that same two uncles? :sweat:

Meet outside some police post for your own safety since you are a small guy..:sweat:

 

[righton]

Hahaha..a great lesson of adult live, so you also know your parents do get sh*t sometime to make the money to grow you guy.:bsmilie: Better use some of the $ for them.:thumbsup:

i know uncle, thats why my dad was 100% for me doing freelance photography jobs to learn how to manange myself, develop some business and personal ethics and earn my own money ..... he got no education one but I respect him tremendously becaus of his strong justice beliefs.....

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

sheesh.. I feel for your situation. And I agree, that groom's got no balls and no honor.

Just a tho, given that they were so "gangster" in the first place, could your next meeting with them be an ambush? What if the mother turns up with that same two uncles? :sweat:

u make it sound like The Mother Is A Gangster (refer to the korean show My Wife Is A Gangster)

 

[righton]

sheesh.. I feel for your situation. And I agree, that groom's got no balls and no honor.

Just a tho, given that they were so "gangster" in the first place, could your next meeting with them be an ambush? What if the mother turns up with that same two uncles? :sweat:

The mum sounds sincere and reasonable but no way will I meet anyone from them...........not even his mummy.

everything transfer to my posbank acct first before i mail out the CD

and thanks for the advise about putting everything down in a written agreement..... dad advised oredi but never listen..... now i see the wisdom

 

[clarinet]

The mum sounds sincere and reasonable but no way will I meet anyone from them...........not even his mummy.

everything transfer to my posbank acct first before i mail out the CD

and thanks for the advise about putting everything down in a written agreement..... dad advised oredi but never listen..... now i see the wisdom

ask them to tranfer more, then send the CD through DHL or registed mail to make sure the CD reach them so that they got nothing more to say.

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

ask them to tranfer more, then send the CD through DHL or registed mail to make sure the CD reach them so that they got nothing more to say.

paiseh lor... DHL dun do local courier...

 

[clarinet]

paiseh lor... DHL dun do local courier...

Any courier that can make sure the CD reach them and ack they recieved the CD de all can.

 

[erizai]

If I were you, I will post their photo to the internet, and let the whole world know this kind of people.. to prevent other from having this kind of unplesant experience..:think:

 

[pcwe68]

Next time, you should have told them that, you tot they don't want photo since they claim too expensive for a CD, so you delete away all the photos. But since they are interested again, you need to pay someone to help you to recover the deleted images, so charge them another $xxx for recovery services.

BTW, how much is the give face ang pow. maybe its just $1 gold coin.......

Anyway, now I think you should not give them all the photo, just select a few then sent it over......(be ethical, sent the important ones lah)