Katherine said:
My wedding is last saturday, 25 Jun and my morning was spoilt by the photographer which i enagaged. He didnt turned up on my AD, he played me out n I called him the whole day on the Friday n Saturday. Luckily i got my sister group n my colleague to help me to take some shots. My brother got his friend to help me the very last min n he agreed and turn up too which i am very grateful to him. All brides want their wedding to turn out well n nothing goes wrong but there is some irresponsible people who is out there to spolit the day. All the preparation are nearly ruin by these type of stupid irresponsible people.
hi katherine,
if i may suggest (without getting flamed) - as you have articulated, "All brides want their wedding to turn out well n nothing goes wrong". unfortunately, something did go wrong... :bheart:
but something else also went right!! thanks to your ever-resourceful brother
(whom you have probably fought with all your life - but now you know that he really loves you, else he wouldn't have bothered to call and convince his friend to cover the event). and your family, friends and colleagues who felt that your wedding was significant enough to them for them to bring their cameras along to take pictures with you
(not just of you). (hopefully, most of the day was covered).
of course, there were also another 1000 other things that went right that day... e.g. each one of guest is another reason to remember the day fondly!!
of course, i might be exaggerating a little... but i'm just trying to get ONE key point across - remember your wedding day for the blessing that it is. sure, something went wrong :thumbsd: , but celebrate the good of that day :thumbsup: . to put it another way, on your anniversary, do not remember the day for the photographer who went MIA, but for what it really was - the day you celebrated your (you and your hubbie) love with your loved ones, family, and friends. :heart:
by no means am i advocating that you should not pursue the matter of any bad practices by the photographer
if he likes taking $100 deposits only to subsequently sued for $12k... maybe im already making too much of a judgment on the guy without really knowing all the facts. but he should be taken to task, if indeed he is in the wrong. :sweat: