How you know he/she is THE ONE?

[nikkie]

just check w yourself: can you live without her/him? :bheart:

If you can enjoy your days, enjoy doing things together when you're with that person, then you have found the one suitable for you! :heart:

 

[seankyh]

sword mountain? its gao shan, not jian shan...

heng you got the last part rite, not xia huo keng... (down the furnace...) :bsmilie:

hmm so after marriage?

After marriage put on weight

 

[majere2sg]

sword mountain? its gao shan, not jian shan...

heng you got the last part rite, not xia huo keng... (down the furnace...) :bsmilie:

hmm so after marriage?

上刀山下火海 ?

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

上刀山下火海 ?

this 刀, i thought its knifes or sabre?

btw till today i still thought it上高山下火海

thanks for your enlightenment...

 

[majere2sg]

When you are willing to give up all your photography equipment to be with him/her. :bsmilie:

 

[kahheng]

hmm just pondering... how you guys or gals decide if your spouse is THE ONE? :dunno:

A clear indication is if he/she agrees to sign a pre-nupt.

 

[jbma]

Life is a gamble and so is marriage. No one can gurantee that you will be happy after marriage. But if you do then it will be the best times of your life. Usually after the first kid the honeymoon is over but the fun begins.

Here's a little story. You are in love with your girlfriend and was walking along Orchard Road when she trip over a hole and fell. You curse and swear at the government for not doing a proper maintenance on the road. After a few years of marriage the same thing happened. Guess what, this time you will be scolding her for not looking where she is going, "You blind is it? Hole so big also cannot see".

Don't let this worry you. Just take it naturally.

 

[Benign]

It is abit like a series of exams/tests

IQ? EQ? Durability? Skills? Presentation?

Kind like a beauty contest, except you are the judge, jury and buyer lor.

Then followed by a set of T&C.



When you realised, it is too late to walk out the agreement. :sweat:

 

[itisnottheendorg]

i think there is too much dose of TV Land in reality here, i agree there is no "1" one thru-out, but if i am pressed to give an answer...then the One at that (or any one) point will be..

...when She smiles at me at my silly antics each time i try to catch her attention, amidst her groups of unknowing friends at the other table.

...while my mind goes WOW while my dumbfounded friends here still each thinking and ACTING like HEs the ONE shes smiling at.

...then she disappears to the back (washroom?) and the 5 mins becomes like 5 hours and i gets [frantically] paranoid if she's ever coming back..and almost kicks myself for how gutless i has been..

...until we finally came to stand facing each other across a narrow corridor...

...and our hands brush when she 'sort try to ask for directions' in the semi-darkness (okok this part is pure hallucinations ok...though not that it had NOT happen before...i am not talking)

if this the case, I had too many "1"s....and BIG FAT ZEROs.....

 

[furrycake]

they always say, marriage is license to have sex.
however, i think that, if you could continue the rship without sex with this person, then this is the ONE

 

[Benign]

however, i think that, if you could continue the rship without sex with this person, then this is the ONE

Honestly, how long do I have to wait? :sweatsm:




It is important,
Coz I am still single.....

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

they always say, marriage is license to have sex.
however, i think that, if you could continue the rship without sex with this person, then this is the ONE

cheem... i have alot of relationship without sex... so there is more than ONE? and most of them are GUYS! so i am a GAY?!!!

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

Honestly, how long do I have to wait? :sweatsm:




It is important,
Coz I am still single.....

my answer is simple...

Tan Gu Gu... (this answer have multiple explanation.. please select the one that you feel most acceptable...)

 

[furrycake]

cheem... i have alot of relationship without sex... so there is more than ONE? and most of them are GUYS! so i am a GAY?!!!

as in bgr lah !!! ai yerr...!!
dca :kok: furrycake

 

[Benign]

my answer is simple...

Tan Gu Gu... (this answer have multiple explanation.. please select the one that you feel most acceptable...)

Well, I do know ladies who are friends for years without any hanky panky.

But the fact is once they start to dress less......more transparent.....posed differently and worst insinuate thoughts.

Then you tell me lah........Said no! U lose them as friends liao. Said Yes, you are stuck with someone u dun love.


Life is a bitch,
:complain:

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

Well, I do know ladies who are friends for years without any hanky panky.

But the fact is once they start to dress less......more transparent.....posed differently and worst insinuate thoughts.

Then you tell me lah........Said no! U lose them as friends liao. Said Yes, you are stuck with someone u dun love.


Life is a bitch,
:complain:

Then say maybe lor... y give a firm answer? or just say lets try, no obligation...

This shows that you should tell them to be like durians, dun be so transparent, else it would be become a peanut after the event is over...

 

[jbma]

Then say maybe lor... y give a firm answer? or just say lets try, no obligation...

This shows that you should tell them to be like durians, dun be so transparent, else it would be become a peanut after the event is over...

wahahaha:bsmilie:

 

[Benign]

Then say maybe lor... y give a firm answer? or just say lets try, no obligation...

This shows that you should tell them to be like durians, dun be so transparent, else it would be become a peanut after the event is over...

Try having someone telling you that she considered having a child herself.........like you are some sort of walking IVF. Then you know :faint:

 

[furrycake]

Well, I do know ladies who are friends for years without any hanky panky.

But the fact is once they start to dress less......more transparent.....posed differently and worst insinuate thoughts.

Then you tell me lah........Said no! U lose them as friends liao. Said Yes, you are stuck with someone u dun love.


Life is a bitch,
:complain:

to a woman...
yes means no
no means no
so when is it a yes :dunno:
you go figure it out :think:

 

[peter]

When both of you realise:

1) That you start to make sacrifices for each other.
2) Make a commitment to remain true to each other in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health and to love and honor each other all the days of your lifes.


regards,
Peter