How you know he/she is THE ONE?

[munwai]

hmm... i gota this from somewhere.. justa share ...

*****

Chance or Choice ??

When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place At the
right time, that's chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's
chance.

Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together
because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that
infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you
want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's not a
chance. That's choice.

When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even if
you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter,
and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the
same, that's choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that
lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.

Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so
true about this: "Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make
it happen."

I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for
you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do
something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but loving
and staying with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make.

We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love ...BUT to learn
how to love an imperfect person perfectly!

"Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life."

*****

 

[yanyewkay]

I know you're out there. I can feel you now. I know that you're afraid... afraid of us. You're afraid of change. I don't know the future. I didn't come here to tell you how this is going to end. I came here to tell how it's going to begin. I'm going to hang up this phone, and then show these people what you don't want them to see. I'm going to show them a world without you. A world without rules or controls, borders or boundaries. A world where anything is possible. Where we go from there is a choice I leave to you.

 

[Del_CtrlnoAlt]

Try having someone telling you that she considered having a child herself.........like you are some sort of walking IVF. Then you know :faint:

hmm then she is the real living tissue lor, at least you own3d her once... thats all that matters.. :think: :nono:

 

[unclej]

bottom line

To guys ==> stop looking for perfect beauty; then u'll find your one very soon.
To gals ==> stop looking for handsome+rich+romantic+caring man; then your right one can be just around u.

Perfect man and perfect woman simply don't exist!!

To all married, ACCEPT whom you have chosen.

 

[reno77]

If you want to know if he loves you so its in his kiss..

 

[detrop]

If you want to know if he loves you so its in his kiss..

are u watching too much of Hitch?

 

[Sion]

hmm just pondering... how you guys or gals decide if your spouse is THE ONE? :dunno:

Whoever that cooks for me, washes my clothes, feeds my tropical fishes, folds the blanket for me, irons my shirts and celebrates my birthday is not "The One", Who is??

 

[Sion]

they always say, marriage is license to have sex.

Which government department to apply for such licence?

 

[Canonised]

When both of you realise:

1) That you start to make sacrifices for each other.
2) Make a commitment to remain true to each other in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health and to love and honor each other all the days of your lifes.


regards,
Peter

Peter, you a priest?

 

[afbug]

You'll will not know. Only time will tell. If both are still loving and holding hands at 70, he/she IS the one.

 

[Benign]

Honestly,

When both of you dun mind the teeth start falling off, unaccountable liposuctions, facelifts fat transplants and still tell each other lies after lies ...years after years.


Then I am sure she/he is THE ONE.


If you wish to sell it, let me know. :devil:



Bloody lonely,

 

[Yildun]

Neo is the one. It has been confirmed in Matrix part 3. Go watch the movie again.

 

[insignificant.i]

"You don't marry someone you can live with. You marry the person you cannot live without." - UNKNOWN

 

[sORe-EyEz]

"You don't marry someone you can live with. You marry the person you cannot live without." - UNKNOWN

i cant live w/o my cam!!:bsmilie: :bsmilie:

 

[Venom81]

Neo is the one. It has been confirmed in Matrix part 3. Go watch the movie again.

:bsmilie: :bsmilie: :bsmilie:

 

[yanyewkay]

guess nobody bothered to follow my link above.. :bsmilie:

 

[nyxx88]

We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love ...BUT to learn
how to love an imperfect person perfectly!

This one very profound!! :thumbsup:

 

[vagabond]

I guess the one works for some. It gives hope that there is someone specially for them. For others, it's pressure, pressure to pick the right one.

I believe there is a right (one) type of people that complements us best. We'd probably meet several of that one type with slightly different good pts & bad, but whose personalities generally fits well with ours. It is then my choice of who we feel/think/pick to be the right one for me, & wait for her whom I pick to choose me too.

What would u do if u think u've met the right one & missed him/her?

 

[Waffle]

When she utters the words, "honey, i'm pregnant..."

At that exact moment, she is definitely THE ONE... whether you like it or not. :bsmilie:

 

[Kenji]

No matter how you ignore, pretend not to be. She will still be the one.