Allow me to rant a little here.
Graciousness actually starts from home..
We have to educate our children. Graciousness is not a personality trait that is variable from one person to another. It is nurture... education.. upbringing.. Graciousness is Discipline..we have to show our children. If you are a gracious person.. a kind person.. chances are you have been brought up with the same influence. what is graciousness..
In a house hold where we show our children how we treat maids like personal slaves .. How gracisou can they be? I have seen a little boy screaming demanding from the maid to get him a glass of water when it is just two steps away from him. I won't blame the Government.. no amount of government campaigning can change what is instilled in you since young..
..
Haha, I totally agreed.
However,
1. Every parents are busy in making money, where got time?!!
2. Every get together session with the children are so precious, who would want to discipline them during this "precious" moment?!!
3.
Our Government not only
encouraging but
going all way out plus throwing in
rich incentives , so as to let the parents have their concentration and time to make money, while on the other hand getting even better "Professionals" to look after our children.
4. So, do the parents still need to teach their children anything? Well, since the "Professionals" are paid for to do it. (Haha, if you read My Paper, there are even classes to teach children on courtesy, etc. that stir up some discussions there.) What the parents can do now is just to buy every damn thing the children want, and put them into any best stuff the parents can find, in order damper their guilty feeling of not having enough times.
5. So, what about those parents who quit their jobs to fully look after their children in order to better up bring the child's character and behaviour for a gracious society in the next few generations? What do they get after having to live with a much lower household income?
Not even a nut! But please correct me, if I'm wrong.
Seriously, I really no eyes see, everytime I visit IKEA (just one of the many examples). Gracious Society? With the life we are encouraged to live? Haha, wait long long lah!