Take care Caleb!
Although I do not know you personally, but we are one in Christ.
"Who shall separate us froom the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?...Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him that loved us. For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."
Romans 8: 35, 37-39.
May the Lord grant you grace, Caleb to see His higher purpose in all these happenings and comfort your family.