linkandzelda
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women have men for good reason too![]()
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women have men for good reason too![]()
women have men for good reason too![]()
but sometimes the feeling's really nice when our partners carry our bags for us.![]()
There are gentlemanly things to do, like opening the door, holding the chair as she sits down, etc etc. But holding a woman's handbag is not one of them.
for a start society should just dump yesteryear's benchmark on roles both genders are expected. fastforward today, some cling on to them as a leverage for unnecessory tit-for-tat spates.
peel prawns, hold handbag, open doors, do housework, tend the kids, do dishes, cook & so on. if things issues can cause a major rift in any relationship. finish liao, cos there r bigger issues awaiting.
Why does it feel "nice"? How does him carrying your handbag make you feel "nice"? You mean it's come to the point where a man has to carry a woman's handbag to show that he cares about her? If that's the case, then the relationship is already doomed from the start.
There are gentlemanly things to do, like opening the door, holding the chair as she sits down, etc etc. But holding a woman's handbag is not one of them.
Thank god my girlfriend think it's completely stupid as well.
Which is why I always feel, don't talk the talk if you can't walk the walk.. don't be in relationships if you can't live 2 lives and more when you have children.. it's not you happy I happy can liao.. everyone stills wants to be in relationship and still live their own live.. Anyway it's too much OT from the handbag topic so I will end here..![]()
if it's a huge heavy bag, of course helping out with the burden is fine.
but i've seen guys carrying their gf's expensive tiny little handbags.
seriously... what are the hangbags for? might as well put your stuff in the guy's bags.
if it's a huge heavy bag, of course helping out with the burden is fine.
but i've seen guys carrying their gf's expensive tiny little handbags.
seriously... what are the hangbags for? might as well put your stuff in the guy's bags.
Need a mega mac ? :bsmilie:
Need a mega mac ? :bsmilie:
Why does it feel "nice"? How does him carrying your handbag make you feel "nice"? You mean it's come to the point where a man has to carry a woman's handbag to show that he cares about her? If that's the case, then the relationship is already doomed from the start.
There are gentlemanly things to do, like opening the door, holding the chair as she sits down, etc etc. But holding a woman's handbag is not one of them.
Thank god my girlfriend think it's completely stupid as well.
If my wife or girlfriend have this kinda of mentality, I would throw the bag into the rubbish bin.. haha