roygoh said:
What is there to be so sad about?
We are disallowing the marketing and advertisements for nude photoshoot sessions, that's all.
Members can still discuss about this genre of photography and share their work (as long as there is no hot linking). Nude photoshoots will still take place because supplies and demands are both strong.
You don't understand? I cannot speak for DP but let me give you my perspective why it's a sad day.
It's sad because you've allowed yourself to be pressured by the media, and a tabloid known for sensationalism, at that.
It's sad because it shows you do not have your own moral convictions and are acting like politicians who worry all day about what the media are saying. Esp the posts talking about not wanting to push the envelope, being steered by the wishes of the community, being able to open it again when the community are ready, the action taken is only very limited, over time we will relax our restrictions, we can't please everyone, etc-- all sound like soundbites from our politicians.
You should understand the difference between those who have moral convictions and those who do not, like most politicians.
Those who have convictions are like the Catholic Church, to use one example. Their position on abortion, no contraception, no gay bishops, no same sex marriage, etc is clear and unequivocal. It doesn't matter how many TNP articles are written, it doesn't matter if society is ready to move on, the church will not change their position in a million years.
And although some people deride them for it, their clear moral compass commands respect even from their critics.
Those without convictions of their own are those who say we will move when the rest of society is ready to move. They express no position of what is right or wrong, everything is a gray area to them, they have no mind of their own and are just trying to see which will get them the most votes.
So which are you?
You should realise that in this situation there are only 3 possibilities.
1. You are right and TNP is just sensationalising.
If so then the right course of action is to make no changes, state clearly what your position is and to write to TNP to complain about their unprofessionalism and sensationalism.
In other words, stand up for your moral convictions.
But you didn't do that.
2. You are wrong and TNP is right.
In that case you should admit you were wrong and write to TNP to explain that you were wrong.
That would show moral conviction, the courage to admit when you are wrong.
But you didn't do that either (unless your letter to the press is already on its way, in which case I take it back).
Having convictions doesn't mean you can never be wrong. South Africa was wrong about apartheid and they had the courage to admit it and to change. They did not say that racial discrimination is a gray area but the white community is now ready to move on, so we will no longer practise it. I can tell you a lot of white land owners and business owners were seriously unhappy about it, but this action shows moral conviction on the part of their new leaders.
But of course, if you knew you were wrong, it begs the question why you knowingly did something wrong for such a long time. Which means you had no moral convictions to guide you.
3. You were wrong but you didn't know about it till TNP highlighted it.
This implies you guys were asleep on the watch. I find that hard to believe with so many of you around.
So which is it?
To me it's clear that you guys have been pressured by the media and have no strength in your own convictions, if you had any.
That is what is so sad about today.
I know that in any group there's always bound to be differing opinions and thus the admins may have settled on the lowest common denominator as a compromise.
However, it shows basically that there's no strong leadership and no strong convictions and decisions are done by compromise according to what will get the most people on board.
If CS had, from Day 1 in its mission statement, said that we do not do nude shoots because we the admins are firmly against it, that would have won a lot of respect.
But to ban nude shoot advertisements as a result of a stupid TNP article doesn't command respect.
If only you had come out with a statement to say that nude photography, like nude painting and nude sculpture, is a legitimate form of art and CS sees nothing wrong with it. You can acknowledge that some amount of GWC behaviour is inevitable but you will try your best to educate the members and the public on the artistic nature of this genre of photography over time. You could even say that TNP chose to highlight only the sensationalistic aspects and chose to ignore the legitimate side of it, and that you are deeply disappointed by their report. You can even point out that anyone can walk to Geylang and pick up a girl for $50 if they just want to gawk or more.
But you chose not to do that. Instead you chose to ban nude shoots on CS and give pithy soundbites.
You chose to say that you are banning nude shoot ads because you want to avoid a sleazy reputation rather than saying nude photography is legitimate art and should continue but you will clean out the sleaze.
So it shows your lack of moral convictions.
With this long and detailed explanation I hope you understand why this is sad.