Well said.
In other word, DP, you can be direct without being rude. Directness and politeness are not mutually exclusive.
Are you able to understand this?
rudeness is also subjective leh.
Well said.
In other word, DP, you can be direct without being rude. Directness and politeness are not mutually exclusive.
Are you able to understand this?
You could say:
"This photo doesn't work for me as I feel that there are just too many areas to improve. Others may not agree with me but I feel strongly that you would be doing yourself a big favour if you re-shot the photo and deleted the original."
as opposed to:
"This photo sucks royally and stinks to high heaven. Even the devils in hell wouldn't spit on it so you should just delete it, empty your Recycle Bin and format your memory card."
even garbage has it's own value. no matter how smelly or useless it may seem to others, there's always a place that places a value for it.
I cannot appreciate some out of focus or motion blurred pics done by some masters and yet, because of his name, many will sing praises to it. On first look to me, it seems like thrash.
just to set the record straight, I doubt I ever used anything as whimpy or as colorful as quoted (highlighted) in deadpixel's post.
You see, I really do not care if other agrees with my comment. If I don't feel strongly about something, I won't comment on it.
Then the second quote, that is ... imaginative.
when we say that photo is a piece of sh*t, we must give reasons and explain.
when we say a photo is good, we no need to give explanations.![]()
anybody cares to post a pic of a pile of dung, just so that we can all agree on at least one sh*tty picture. hah.tgif tgif.
How did it smell when you took this pic?
So its his or her choice.... himself will choose ..
not a pile but a piece, i hope it is good enough
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Everybody sees things differently...
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To the critique giver, it may be a snapshot.
To the photographer, it's a masterpiece.
To the person looking for soft porn, the more the merrier.
This picture is interesting.
You could say:
"This photo doesn't work for me as I feel that there are just too many areas to improve. Others may not agree with me but I feel strongly that you would be doing yourself a big favour if you re-shot the photo and deleted the original."
as opposed to:
"This photo sucks royally and stinks to high heaven. Even the devils in hell wouldn't spit on it so you should just delete it, empty your Recycle Bin and format your memory card."
They both tell the photographer that his photo doesn't work for you but whilst the first has some encouragement in it for the photographer to do better, the second outrightly condemns and humiliates.
This isn't about sugar coating your words, this is about etiquette; meanings can be conveyed in many ways and we can choose to be direct yet polite or direct but rude. When photographers ask for C&C, they are asking for Comments and Critique that will help them improve, not Condemnation and Censure that will discourage; and whilst many of your curt remarks are followed by useful pointers, I believe that no one in CS is going to fault you if you continued with your pointers but changed your brusque delivery of it.
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just to set the record straight, I doubt I ever used anything as whimpy or as colorful as quoted (highlighted) in deadpixel's post.
You see, I really do not care if other agrees with my comment. If I don't feel strongly about something, I won't comment on it.
Then the second quote, that is ... imaginative.
Imaginative use of back lighting ...
The lighting of the subject is too flat for my liking ...
The green flare is way too distracting and need to be corrected...
minor adjustment on the styling ...
some adjustment to how the back light is positioned ....
you got a winner here
To set the record Straighter, you did it many times to others but it does not apply when you commented on Jeanie's Photo.
Below is the example. You actually know how to sugar coat your comments. If you treat others the way you have treated Jeanie, you will hve less problem with the rest of the people here.
At first I tot you are going to send this pic to the thrash bin, but to my surprise.......
It's A Winner.
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By the way this picture is far worst than those pictures that you have poured acid on.
To set the record Straighter, you did it many times to others but it does not apply when you commented on Jeanie's Photo.
Below is the example. You actually know how to sugar coat your comments. If you treat others the way you have treated Jeanie, you will hve less problem with the rest of the people here.
At first I tot you are going to send this pic to the thrash bin, but to my surprise.......
It's A Winner.
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By the way this picture is far worst than those pictures that you have poured acid on.