btw, if you have to look for female friends this way, you are sending the wrong signal.
i would be very surprised if any females would even bother to entertain you, because based on your postings here, and the fact that you have to resort to such behaviour as to post an open thread asking for "chio bu photographer friends to shoot with", that is a clear warning sign that there is something amiss. if i were a very pretty female, the first thing i would do is to note down your user name, and then if any danny, foxy, or danfox person contact me anywhere else, i run far far away....
don't get me wrong, i am just giving you heartfelt advice.....