Tell her sorry, Street shoot is legal in Sg.
But, I do agree that street shooting dosen't mean can just shoot like that. That's where a lot of photographers still miss the point that not everyone likes being shot at. Just shoot sensibly and if the subject or guardian is not happy, don't shoot loh.
I actually agree with the parents on that one, if you're a parent you'll probably don't want that to happen too.
When I went to the skate park, the area in front of Toys R' Us, etc. Some contestants (sorry, can't call them "photographers") were shooting kids up close without even asking the parents or acknowledging them... I found it quite rude that many participants were swarming around kids taking photos of them "discreetly" without even talking to the parents and all.
Not even a simple "thanks" gesture after shooting.
I think we all have our personal boundaries and when it comes to kids, parents have an even larger boundary and a responsible photographer should at least signal the parent for agreement before shooting.
Yesterday was probably my first attempt to walk up to strangers, asking for permission to photograph and it was quite rewarding even to those who politely declined.
After the 2nd event, my son and wife went to Suntec to see me and I was happy that the last theme can involve a child since I'm most comfortable with photographing my son.
So I thought of going to Toys R' Us to get my son a Bumblebee mask (he already has 2 actually), and get myself an Optimus Prime mask (since I promised him I'll get one as we always pretend to be Bumblebee and Optimus), after I paid, I saw the large Transformers poster and decided to ask my wife to take a couple of pictures of both of us for personal use coz it was fun.
When it was my wife's turn to wear the mask with my son, at least 3 participants in Canon shirt were sneakingly photographing my wife and kid. While I know they're going to submit that for the competition, I didn't really like the idea of strangers with large cams pointing at my family, the least those guys could do was to ask me/my wife first.
I even saw
my wife and son's photo being submitted during the slideshow. If those guys asked permission, I'd be more than happy to pose for them and hope they win with my son's photo, but being "paparazzi-like" is no way to shoot strangers, it's just rude.
My original plan was to buy bubbles for a child to play with then use that as a subject. Since I don't need a stranger's kid anymore with my son's visit, I brought him out to the exit area and let him play with the bubbles while I try to get one for submission for theme 3. Egad, 2 minutes into our playtime, three guys were photographing him from 10-15ft away.
It's annoying actually... While I know this is an amateur competition, people should start with proper photography etiquette while still new to this craft, instead of thinking "it's public, I can do whatever I want..."
Unless you're shooting a crowd, you really have to be civil and polite when photographing private portraits.