I also facing the same problem as everyone here....whether to get a 450D or 40D… the reason is the same as you too…
Been testing 40D many many times.. Before 450D release.…hold it feel it and play with it in the shop…..I like the build of 40D solid feeling and heavy.... after a while my hands get tired...But I still wanted to buy 40D at that time....
But heard that 450D is coming soon... So put 40D on hold... and wait to get the feel of 450D first....after trying and testing 450D... the weight is just right for me and build is much better than 400D...
But yet I still like 40D..... Reasons are the same as you all.
But after get the feel of 450D...I went back home and re-think all over again....
Asking myself again.
I wanted a light weight and able to take nice and good photos while traveling and at the same time can take photo of my fast moving kid too.... But travel light is what I really wanted for and with kid I may still need to carry him.....
That why last time I had a Fujifilm camera FinePix F601X is quite heavy and after many years.. I decided to get small and compact D-camera. So I got a Sony Cybershot T7...that was so easy to bring around during traveling and is super light..!!!!...But still not able to give me the pix that I wanted for.....
Last August climb Mt FUJI took me abt half a day and 1 night to reach the peak….imagine if I carried a 40D climbing up…I think I will burn out fast.. but I don't said 450D is very light.. but at least the weight will not kill me that fast ( I hope).....and still able to shot nice photos.
Myself, I like to travel and hike for many hrs.... So I think 450D is still a good choice for me.... and till now I still happy with it...
last month when for hiking at one of the Mt in japan and walked abt 4 hrs reach the Mt peak carried my 450D.. the weight is still acceptable for me to hike.
So I would advice other ppl like me... want to travel and walk aorund most of the time 450D is still not a good choice.
The pix at Mt FUJI. (using Sony T7)
http://www.forums.clubsnap.org/forums/showthread.php?t=344473&highlight=Rubber_Duck
The Pix last month at the Japan one of the Mt Peak (using 450D)
Still the pix may not look good yet... but I'm still new.. and still in the learning process...
SORRY FOR THE LONG COMMENTS...