What's the point of having kids?


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General Comment : then why were YOU born in the first place ? you're a total nuisance, inconvenience and waste of everyone's time, money and effort ?

As if I have a choice to be born or not. Hee
 

What is a purpose of life?

Answer that and you will know the point of having kids.
 

Is loneliness a good reason? (seems like it's a fear, rather than a reason)
To keep the marriage? (that seems even more like insecurity than anything)
To follow crowd?
Because that's what everyone does??

Hmm.. does anyone have a good answer to this question?

Loneliness can be a good and bad thing. When you are lonely, you tend to be more truthful to yourself, and you won't be wearing a fake mask. It's a point in time whereby you can take off that mask and rest. However, as you age, loneliness will slowly become a bad thing. Because the number of friends you have might decrease, and if you are not married, you won't even have any children or a companion.

Seriously, the world can't exist with only one person, and the co-existence of each other makes the world a better place. A person will perish if he/she doesn't have any friends/relatives. It's way too hard for the human's mind to face absolute loneliness.

When boys grow up to become men, and when girls grow up to become women, they have to marry. Not a rule, but a cycle. They will get close to one another and develop feelings for each other. It is nature. And making love is also part of the cycle. Giving birth is also. That's the fruit of the love shared by the man and the woman.

I will want to have kids in the future. If I could afford, I would want to have 3-4 children. Why? Because the ability to have children is a blessing. I love to be lonely at times, and I also hate to be lonely when I grow old. I want to have a family that will be very happening. And I know that would be tough, but I am going to try. And as I grow old, I want to take care of my grandchildren.

So what's the point of having kids? To experience Life. ;)
 

well. kids haha. its awful cause of the responsibilities. like a super duper smart pet ur keeping.

then again. some is for fun.

some is impulse. jump on bus first. pay later. pay really a lot later.

for me. i think its just something special. like. love ~~ its the product between u and ur darling. a small fellow for u 2 to torture scold whine yell and yet still care abt. quite cool huh
 

I love kids and that's why I have kids. No need points. :bsmilie:

Most ppl want kids to satisfy themselves...

Some satisfy themselves then kena end up with kids :bsmilie:
 

I'm father of 4 kids and live very happily with family. Raising ur own kids are most wonderful experience tru out ur entire life. Just ask ur parent if you don't believe me. A parent will never sigh or say they are tired when attending to their kids even though they are so tired came back from work, but kids will give a thousand of excuses if their parents ask for a small helps.

Just look at our parents, they can raise 6-8 children without complain even though they are not wealthy. They even didn't asked for returned, but 6-8 children had a hard times and grudges to care of their parents when their parents getting older and older. Even worse they suggest their parents to join in the old-folks home. Reason everything well taken off.

So what comes around will turn around. If you raise ur kids with tender, loving and care. Do you think when you grow old they will kick you to the old folk home?

To me right now, if I didn't see or hear my kids voices in a day, I felt my day is incomplete. No matter how tired I am, my kids are more priority. Educate and discipline them when they were still young. Be their best friend when they are teenage. Then you will be more respectful and appreciated when they are adults. This system has been taught by my parents and still the same system I apply to my kids.

Cheer up and start breeding.:lovegrin:
 

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