Is loneliness a good reason? (seems like it's a fear, rather than a reason)
To keep the marriage? (that seems even more like insecurity than anything)
To follow crowd?
Because that's what everyone does??
Hmm.. does anyone have a good answer to this question?
Loneliness can be a good and bad thing. When you are lonely, you tend to be more truthful to yourself, and you won't be wearing a fake mask. It's a point in time whereby you can take off that mask and rest. However, as you age, loneliness will slowly become a bad thing. Because the number of friends you have might decrease, and if you are not married, you won't even have any children or a companion.
Seriously, the world can't exist with only one person, and the co-existence of each other makes the world a better place. A person will perish if he/she doesn't have any friends/relatives. It's way too hard for the human's mind to face absolute loneliness.
When boys grow up to become men, and when girls grow up to become women, they have to marry. Not a rule, but a cycle. They will get close to one another and develop feelings for each other. It is nature. And making love is also part of the cycle. Giving birth is also. That's the fruit of the love shared by the man and the woman.
I will want to have kids in the future. If I could afford, I would want to have 3-4 children. Why? Because the ability to have children is a blessing. I love to be lonely at times, and I also hate to be lonely when I grow old. I want to have a family that will be very happening. And I know that would be tough, but I am going to try. And as I grow old, I want to take care of my grandchildren.
So what's the point of having kids? To experience Life.
