Weight Loss Cafe(Season 9) - Finally the long waited CNY is here! Huat huh!

[Ola]

me thinks we need to bring furrycake out for kopi... :think:

Maybe she just need your shoulder to cry on .

 

[kitkat]

To love is to accept the good and bad of the person.
When money is involved, there are always problem.
Money is the root to all evil.

Money is not the root of all evil. Money itself is not evil. It is man(or woman) themselves in their cause of actions , thoughts and deeds.

It is "Addictive Greed to money (or anything) is evil"

 

[Funny]

i think GUYS should be in control in a marriage becaoz guys have soft spot ... they look tough but actually their hearts are softies. GENERALLY , GALS are different .... they appear soft but they are mostly calculative, unforgiving, manupulative, jealous and very tough ....
Men kill, but women murder .... :sweat:

Dun agreed! U under woman control???? Nt everybody is like tat! There r gd n bad on both sides!

 

[Funny]

i dun dare to think about it.. just live with it, i guess

:nono: :nono: :nono: Like tat is nt the solution!

 

[madmacs]

In any relationship, it take both party to work. Not only between you and your spouse. Even your family members and friends?
To maintain any relationship, communication is a must.
Nothing is free and easy. You have to work for it including relationship.

wow...this guy is good :thumbsup:

 

[madmacs]

Maybe she just need your shoulder to cry on .

well if she needs it...its always available

 

[madmacs]

:nono: :nono: :nono: Like tat is nt the solution!

ya lor...

 

[Funny]

i've struggled way too long, until i dont know what's long term anymore...

I think u nid some1 to talk to leh! Dun become like some of my frends whose relationship r vei luan qi ba chao!

 

[Ola]

i think GUYS should be in control in a marriage becaoz guys have soft spot ... they look tough but actually their hearts are softies. GENERALLY , GALS are different .... they appear soft but they are mostly calculative, unforgiving, manupulative, jealous and very tough ....
Men kill, but women murder .... :sweat:

There should not be a single party in control. Both party have to play a part in marriage.
Mutual agreement and communication is a must. Not "I said, you obey".
The 2 things that usually ruin a person or relationship is POWER & MONEY.

 

[furrycake]

:nono: :nono: :nono: Like tat is nt the solution!

i think those who really know me would know, i'll even hide my true emotions so not to make them worried or think further or create more problems. it's just me, Funny.

 

[madmacs]

i think those who really know me would know, i'll even hide my true emotions so not to make them worried or think further or create more problems. it's just me, Funny.

thats not the way to go lor....what you are doing is like ostrich mentality. hide and hope the problem goes away. doesnt work in real life...

 

[Funny]

no feeling.....

Huh.... like tat cannt lah! Dun be like mi last time. I dun feel happy wif my past relationship although we been together wif more than 5 years.

 

[Funny]

wow...this guy is good :thumbsup:

He is always gd wif words! :sweatsm:

 

[Ola]

i think those who really know me would know, i'll even hide my true emotions so not to make them worried or think further or create more problems. it's just me, Funny.

BTW are you "officially" married?

 

[furrycake]

thats not the way to go lor....what you are doing is like ostrich mentality. hide and hope the problem goes away. doesnt work in real life...

thats what he wans me to do... so long i dont think of it, it wont be a problem then.

 

[Funny]

There should not be a single party in control. Both party have to play a part in marriage.
Mutual agreement and communication is a must. Not "I said, you obey".
The 2 things that usually ruin a person or relationship is POWER & MONEY.

Yap! Yap! Yap!

 

[Ola]

He is always gd wif words! :sweatsm:

I never knew that I was good with words.

 

[furrycake]

BTW are you "officially" married?

registered, not customary yet.

 

[Ola]

thats what he wans me to do... so long i dont think of it, it wont be a problem then.

Don't think of it not equal to no problem.
The problem is still there!!!

 

[Funny]

i think those who really know me would know, i'll even hide my true emotions so not to make them worried or think further or create more problems. it's just me, Funny.

Is nt gd loh! Will make urself feel nt urself loh! U must be urself in order to be happy! When u feel happy, the world feel happy wif u! To mi, like tat sound veri sad loh! :cry: :cry: :cry: