the problem is that my friendz is soft hearted type .... he knows they have hundreds of thousand of dollars in the joint account and he is one of those type who used to believe in love, (love is trust, love is blind, love is limitless, and all those bullsai, etc...). He simply not interested in the money, and that's where the problem started. So the lesson we can learn is that no matter what, the guy must always be in control and not let this thing called LOVE to mess up the future ... :bsmilie:
BTW if it is not for the child, he would be glad to leave the marriage...