We ALL cheat on our spouses!

[nyxx88]

Just finished reading all the posts.... one of the morals that can be derived is.... buy all your equipment before marriage!! :bsmilie:

 

[amospi]

Just finished reading all the posts.... one of the morals that can be derived is.... buy all your equipment before marriage!! :bsmilie:

Ha ha ha you found the solution!!:thumbsup: :sweatsm: :sweatsm:

 

[nyxx88]

Wish I picked up the hobby & equipment BEFORE marriage. Now, must live with 'budget' lenses

 

[amospi]

Wish I picked up the hobby & equipment BEFORE marriage. Now, must live with 'budget' lenses

Also out of date body and lenses..:sweatsm:

 

[Belle&Sebastain]

hahahahaha!

Your biggest mistake was to take her along to CP!.... what i normally do is to park at Raffles City and accompany her to Robinson & co .... then say let's meet at the supermarket in about 2hrs ,,, ...
if you buy anything on that day at CP, she will normally wont complain coz she would be juz as guilty with her purchases at Robinson, etc... Maybe she is more worried that you may nag at her for buying those clothings, shoes, etc when there is no more space in your house. Also once you meet her, start to nag at her before she asked what you buy .... hehe
It always works ..... guarantee you, your drive home will be a very quiet one!

tomorrow i get a big bag to hide my hassabald purchase...
:sweat:

 

[Belle&Sebastain]

Now I understand why some ppl like to gaffer up their camera and lens. :bigeyes:

how to gaffer the WB senor???

but canon grey bags very useful to hide L lenses, the wide zooms and the 24 1.4 is about the same size, 50 1.4 and 35 f2 is about the same size hahaha! thankfully she does not read this forum anymore...:think:

 

[Belle&Sebastain]

Where are the real men? If a woman dares me to do something, and if I do it, and if she has a problem with it, I tell her to take a hike.

guess you dun understand women, they are not straight talkers, they dun mean what they say...often the opposite.

 

[Belle&Sebastain]

Just finished reading all the posts.... one of the morals that can be derived is.... buy all your equipment before marriage!! :bsmilie:

actually its a matter of give and take, you buy a new dress, i buy a new toy. then you give a little more to have a little peace.

 

[nyxx88]

actually its a matter of give and take, you buy a new dress, i buy a new toy. then you give a little more to have a little peace.

Probably like, she buys a few dresses, some shoes, a handbag, more shoes, and then some.... and I buy a toy :bsmilie:

 

[T.A.]

lol sounds like a thread for married men to complain about their wives
are married women really that horrible?
i dont control my hubby on what he spends or buys becos that's his money. so long not illegal one, guan wo se mo shi :bsmilie:

Furrycake, I've got to agree with what you've said. But help me out leh, I've got big problem now.:embrass:

I challenged her 2 to 3 days back big time, pushed her to the extent she shoved a mop right into my face & cursed my parents as well (in fact, my whole family just to spite me). The thing was, due to her background (some things that happened in her family), she would never ever back down or say sorry when she was wrong for the time we were together. I decided not to give in to her anymore and she couldn't do anything to me. Insults came then what I mentioned above but of course I blocked the mop lah, also restrained & tried to talk to her calmly to settle the dispute later.

She didn't want & I ignored her for 2/3 days (she always does this to me, this time, I just followed suit). Now, she went back to her house (she's only my gf not wife). Emotional blackmail again. What to do har?:dunno:

She's a nice girl most of the time so long we don't quarrel, together for 1.5 yrs already, don't wish to end a relationship just cos of an arguement / rather that I didn't just back down. She's still a bit young leh (17) is that why she's so unreasonable?:sweat:

 

[T.A.]

Aiyah, should've just PMed you so embarrasing now:embrass:

 

[Belle&Sebastain]

if everyone put their ego down a little, just make up and later when she is normal again you can talk to her about her behaviour and what you are unhappy about.

No point fighting when both of you are heated up, cheers she is a young lady at 17, i have the same problem only she is 27 so there you go!

Furrycake, I've got to agree with what you've said. But help me out leh, I've got big problem now.:embrass:

I challenged her 2 to 3 days back big time, pushed her to the extent she shoved a mop right into my face & cursed my parents as well (in fact, my whole family just to spite me). The thing was, due to her background (some things that happened in her family), she would never ever back down or say sorry when she was wrong for the time we were together. I decided not to give in to her anymore and she couldn't do anything to me. Insults came then what I mentioned above but of course I blocked the mop lah, also restrained & tried to talk to her calmly to settle the dispute later.

She didn't want & I ignored her for 2/3 days (she always does this to me, this time, I just followed suit). Now, she went back to her house (she's only my gf not wife). Emotional blackmail again. What to do har?:dunno:

She's a nice girl most of the time so long we don't quarrel, together for 1.5 yrs already, don't wish to end a relationship just cos of an arguement / rather that I didn't just back down. She's still a bit young leh (17) is that why she's so unreasonable?:sweat:

 

[madmacs]

Furrycake, I've got to agree with what you've said. But help me out leh, I've got big problem now.:embrass:

I challenged her 2 to 3 days back big time, pushed her to the extent she shoved a mop right into my face & cursed my parents as well (in fact, my whole family just to spite me). The thing was, due to her background (some things that happened in her family), she would never ever back down or say sorry when she was wrong for the time we were together. I decided not to give in to her anymore and she couldn't do anything to me. Insults came then what I mentioned above but of course I blocked the mop lah, also restrained & tried to talk to her calmly to settle the dispute later.

She didn't want & I ignored her for 2/3 days (she always does this to me, this time, I just followed suit). Now, she went back to her house (she's only my gf not wife). Emotional blackmail again. What to do har?

She's a nice girl most of the time so long we don't quarrel, together for 1.5 yrs already, don't wish to end a relationship just cos of an arguement / rather that I didn't just back down. She's still a bit young leh (17) is that why she's so unreasonable?:sweat:

i hate to say this but this is a taste of what you will be in for after you marry her. if you can tahan this then go talk to her. maybe even apologize, but then you will be apologizing for the rest of life after this ;p

hmm...only 17 ah? sounds like a spoilt child to me :think:

 

[amospi]

Furrycake, I've got to agree with what you've said. But help me out leh, I've got big problem now.:embrass:

I challenged her 2 to 3 days back big time, pushed her to the extent she shoved a mop right into my face & cursed my parents as well (in fact, my whole family just to spite me). The thing was, due to her background (some things that happened in her family), she would never ever back down or say sorry when she was wrong for the time we were together. I decided not to give in to her anymore and she couldn't do anything to me. Insults came then what I mentioned above but of course I blocked the mop lah, also restrained & tried to talk to her calmly to settle the dispute later.

She didn't want & I ignored her for 2/3 days (she always does this to me, this time, I just followed suit). Now, she went back to her house (she's only my gf not wife). Emotional blackmail again. What to do har?:dunno:

She's a nice girl most of the time so long we don't quarrel, together for 1.5 yrs already, don't wish to end a relationship just cos of an arguement / rather that I didn't just back down. She's still a bit young leh (17) is that why she's so unreasonable?:sweat:

You should find out the WOMEN RIGHT!!:bsmilie:
Unreasonable happen to be one of them.

How? when she is away you feel freedom or sign of relieve, glad, party etc..
if the answer is yes=can let her go liao.
if the answer is no=kena 'kongtao' liao have to sweet talk her back liao.

 

[Canonised]

She's a nice girl most of the time so long we don't quarrel, together for 1.5 yrs already, don't wish to end a relationship just cos of an arguement / rather that I didn't just back down. She's still a bit young leh (17) is that why she's so unreasonable?:sweat:

Have you seen a leopard with strips or a zebra with spots? If one doesn't wish to change a habit by himself/herself then you either must learn to accept the habit or totally reject it immediately. Probably she has also a lot of things she doesn't like about you.

tomorrow i get a big bag to hide my hassabald purchase...
:sweat:

For Hassy it's easy ... just tell her you are so lucky to get hold of one item cheaply at the Sungei Road. but juz dont mention about the $$$.

 

[Deadpoet]

Furrycake, I've got to agree with what you've said. But help me out leh, I've got big problem now.:embrass:

I challenged her 2 to 3 days back big time, pushed her to the extent she shoved a mop right into my face & cursed my parents as well (in fact, my whole family just to spite me). The thing was, due to her background (some things that happened in her family), she would never ever back down or say sorry when she was wrong for the time we were together. I decided not to give in to her anymore and she couldn't do anything to me. Insults came then what I mentioned above but of course I blocked the mop lah, also restrained & tried to talk to her calmly to settle the dispute later.

She didn't want & I ignored her for 2/3 days (she always does this to me, this time, I just followed suit). Now, she went back to her house (she's only my gf not wife). Emotional blackmail again. What to do har?:dunno:

She's a nice girl most of the time so long we don't quarrel, together for 1.5 yrs already, don't wish to end a relationship just cos of an arguement / rather that I didn't just back down. She's still a bit young leh (17) is that why she's so unreasonable?:sweat:

Why are you still in this relationship? She will never change, and you will have to put up and shut up the rest of your life. There is a better alternative, walk. You have wasted 1 1/2 years already. time to cut your lost. The world is your oyster, go forth and partake.

 

[furrycake]

Furrycake, I've got to agree with what you've said. But help me out leh, I've got big problem now.

I challenged her 2 to 3 days back big time, pushed her to the extent she shoved a mop right into my face & cursed my parents as well (in fact, my whole family just to spite me). The thing was, due to her background (some things that happened in her family), she would never ever back down or say sorry when she was wrong for the time we were together. I decided not to give in to her anymore and she couldn't do anything to me. Insults came then what I mentioned above but of course I blocked the mop lah, also restrained & tried to talk to her calmly to settle the dispute later.

She didn't want & I ignored her for 2/3 days (she always does this to me, this time, I just followed suit). Now, she went back to her house (she's only my gf not wife). Emotional blackmail again. What to do har?

She's a nice girl most of the time so long we don't quarrel, together for 1.5 yrs already, don't wish to end a relationship just cos of an arguement / rather that I didn't just back down. She's still a bit young leh (17) is that why she's so unreasonable?

me become love advisor ar :sweatsm:

hehe.. actually, girls are mostly easily coaxed. just apologised to her in a sincere way. if you could, meet her and present her with a bouquet of flowers. look her in the eyes and say you're really, really sorry. works 99.99% of the time :lovegrin:

think you stepped on her 'deathspot'. everyone has.. that includes me too. when my hubby says things that i dont want to hear, he'll get it from me too :devil:

give her some time to cool down if she ignores you for abit.. dont worry, things would be okie. btw girls love to be coaxed over & over

 

[furrycake]

Why are you still in this relationship? She will never change, and you will have to put up and shut up the rest of your life. There is a better alternative, walk. You have wasted 1 1/2 years already. time to cut your lost. The world is your oyster, go forth and partake.

there're ups & downs in every rships. he said himself that she's a nice girl most of the time. i think he could give it another shot

 

[amospi]

over & over

:faint: :hung: :flame: OVER N OVER

 

[furrycake]

:faint: :hung: :flame: OVER N OVER

wat you thinking :sweatsm: