Fwah, this kind of thread can generate so many responses huh.. Just because the starter is a young lady? :dunno: :bsmilie: Interesting if u look at the link between gender and continuation of threads.
Lil princess, seems like u've been considering for a loooong time. Just take the step NOW and make yr move! The more u procrastinate and worry and worry, the more u will delay and be concerned about the wrong things.
Communication is definitely impt when u learn something, especially driving. Since English is your preferred medium, go for the instructor who speaks English, even though it costs more. But of cos, no one can guarantee u he will be better than others (who speak Mandarin). But that's life, if u dun try, u won't know. I wud advise u though, to get someone who has been recommended b4. More assurance. But again, he's not necessarily better than others.
Happy driving!