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night86mare
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i confess, it is me.
i leave.since ziploc don't like me here. :cry:
Looking at your posted self portrait, you've got nose hair growing into a mustache and combining with your beard. You're too manly to be a non-guy :bsmilie:
night86mare
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ziploc
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Why not? If I'm taking better pics then she does. :vhappy:
Of course.
In makes me feel damn good that I can get better pictures off a Lomo. :angel:
NeTHaCk
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i dont mind . in fact .. my gf's more successful than me.
i've only 5 O levels and a dip in mass comm which i didnt do my advanced dip.
i've completed my NS and still finding a job.. only doing freelance photography which doesnt pay much..
my bank account the digits are so pitiful it's barely 3 digits ..
my gf ? : she's got 2diplomas and another one coming up
she's a teacher
she's far richer than me .
she;s been working for 3yrs now ?
all of this are just ego bashing for most guys .. but to me, as long as my partner is successful , im happy too. i share her joy too. it doesnt matter to me if she's better in everyway. if you can love a person sincerely, everything will come naturally.
there are lots of better guys out there , some far more loaded and better educated who have been chasing after her but despite all that , we're still together. we've suffered hardships together to get where we are today.
actually its the same for my parents. in terms of education , my mum is also more educated actually. it was because of her my dad is who he is today. Like the saying goes , behind every successful man , is a woman. i strive to be better because of my partner. so whats with the ego bashing ?
i've only 5 O levels and a dip in mass comm which i didnt do my advanced dip.
i've completed my NS and still finding a job.. only doing freelance photography which doesnt pay much..
my bank account the digits are so pitiful it's barely 3 digits ..
my gf ? : she's got 2diplomas and another one coming up
she's a teacher
she's far richer than me .
she;s been working for 3yrs now ?
all of this are just ego bashing for most guys .. but to me, as long as my partner is successful , im happy too. i share her joy too. it doesnt matter to me if she's better in everyway. if you can love a person sincerely, everything will come naturally.
there are lots of better guys out there , some far more loaded and better educated who have been chasing after her but despite all that , we're still together. we've suffered hardships together to get where we are today.
actually its the same for my parents. in terms of education , my mum is also more educated actually. it was because of her my dad is who he is today. Like the saying goes , behind every successful man , is a woman. i strive to be better because of my partner. so whats with the ego bashing ?
That would be in fact a huge turn on, LOL!
NeTHaCk
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i dont believe that a person can stay stagnant for more than 1 week. life continues and we are continuously improving. even if we may still get the same pay, everyday is a new day and that everyday you improve yourself. you choose what you want to become. it's all in the mind.
you can choose to sulk all day and tell yourself sigh im still here doing this same old thing even after all these years , OR you can choose to be positive and see things differently. that you've improved everyday, that your love has grown deeper despite all that you are. that for the last 5 years i may still be the same but im more matured and know her more deeper than i ever did and that even though i may not be providing enough, we are still happy.
in the end, life doesnt revolve just around $$ or looks. its human nature to look for $$ and looks for survival to mate and live but evolve yourself to accomodate to whatever you have and be appreciative about it. look at it this way, there are others out there far worst .
i rather be poor and happy than be rich and spoilt
The real question is, potentially, seems more like a problem for her than you.
Btw, is this hypothetical or are you so insecured about your relationship that you have to ask a third party.
Disclaimer. If the above question is answered already, my apology, :bsmilie:.
If it were hypothetical, then who cares, because I doubt she will accept the differences. If not, then if she sees this thread, it will revert back to hypothetical.
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:bsmilie: Ahh, the joys of Internet never cease... :bheart:
riotvan
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There's this saying.. love is blind.. marriage is an eye-opener.. :bsmilie:
I recall a story that my chinese language teacher told us when I was still schooling. His elder sister, a degree holder, marries a man that is lower educated than her. Apparently, the courtship bears fruit and they got married.
Then.. whenever there is a disagreement (or the lady made some comments that the guy doesn't like to hear), the guy will always, always, say, you "li hai" lah.. you graduate mah.. you win liao lor.. and then the cold war starts..
Or maybe whenever something needs to be done.. the guy will say "you graduate mah.. very "li hai" mah.. you do lah.."
whenever the lady wants to reason with the guy, he will always say the same thing.
Unless the man is the very very gracious type with big big heart.. else such relationships might be difficult to work out..
I recall a story that my chinese language teacher told us when I was still schooling. His elder sister, a degree holder, marries a man that is lower educated than her. Apparently, the courtship bears fruit and they got married.
Then.. whenever there is a disagreement (or the lady made some comments that the guy doesn't like to hear), the guy will always, always, say, you "li hai" lah.. you graduate mah.. you win liao lor.. and then the cold war starts..
Or maybe whenever something needs to be done.. the guy will say "you graduate mah.. very "li hai" mah.. you do lah.."
whenever the lady wants to reason with the guy, he will always say the same thing.
Unless the man is the very very gracious type with big big heart.. else such relationships might be difficult to work out..
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Del_CtrlnoAlt
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先奸容易, 想出难? :bsmilie:
Haha, you speaking from experience is it?? :bsmilie: :bsmilie:
Ok, I edit my post.
Del_CtrlnoAlt
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type in chinese lah... now can use, 相奸 also... like the famous poem... 1 of the line... xiang jian he tai ji... never punctuate the 'sound' properly become, 相奸何太急
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