Deadpoet said:
I did not raise the issue when Wolfgang closed the original thread. I did feel he should have allowed the 'saga" to play out, so that the members know what had actually transpired. Is this our problem, no, but as I had originally indicated, it is a subject dear to many of our hearts.
It is the entire mod and admin team's position that the issue should be settled privately between the parties involved. We have followed this same policy as much as we can in handling previous disputes between members and we do not see the need for an exception here.
Deadpoet said:
reachme2003 opened a new thread exactly because of the reason I stated above. If he had not, someone else would have.
The reason for closing reachme2003's thread is the same as the reason for closing the original thread. Contrary to your claim in your first post, I did not close it simply because I did not agree with him. Also, I would have closed such a thread regardless of the originator.
Deadpoet said:
Is a moderator above the rest of the masses? Why can't we members, who is an integral part of this forum, challenge the action of a moderator? If the challenge is with merit, great, if not, it gets shot down. Is the moderator's decision sacrilegious, I don't think so, I hope not. I can understand that such challenges can be fustrating, but, that is part of the territory, for being a moderator.
If someone has an issue with the moderator's closing a thread, the person can always raise the concern stating the reasons in the feedback forum instead of going head on with the moderator by openning a new thread of the same topic.
You raised your issue with my closing of reachme2003's thread, and this thread has not been closed.
Deadpoet said:
yes, I was expecting a complete, but can be concise explanation to the closing of the thread. Closing the thread, you denied the members something they want to know, you denied the bride, the 2 photogs, and 1 innocent by-stander their right to air their sides of the stories, and to set the record straight. Yes, the closure of reachme2003's thread deserve a full explanation, it demands a full explanation!
Please read my post again. I did give concise but complete explanation for closing the thread. You ignored that and picked on the phrase "I do not agree" that I've said, and based the origination and title of this thread entirely on that.
Again, we have been following our policy of discouraging members from settling their personal disputes in the open, as far as I know. If that means that by-standers are deprived of the juicy details of such incidents as well as not have a chance to get involved and complicate the issue unecessarily, so be it. We believe that would help to maintain the well-being of the CS community and let us focus on what we are here for in the first place - promoting photography.
Not sure who is the "1 innocent by-stander" that you are referring to that somehow need to air his/her side fo the story. If this person is a by-stander then why should he/she have a story to air? If you are referring to kahheng, who seems to have been marginally involved due to the identity "confusion", I believe he has had his more than fair share of air time on that issue in the thread (no offence to you, kahheng).
Deadpoet said:
You are quoting me out of contect! I said if a member can make a comments without reading through the thread, but the action reflects only badly on said member, and I did not say its ok. (The word CAN means the person can do it, you have mistaken is with the word MAY!) On the contrary, a moderator's action reflects not only on the moderator, but the entire CS administration. That is what I said.
Oops, my bad. That was an honest mistake on my part, and I appologize for that. But hopefully you can now understand how I felt when you quoted me out of context.
- Roy