To Larry and the rest of the moderators,
Thanks for volunteering to be moderators, and I will admit, can be a thankless job. I salut you guys for that.
To make CS a better place for all of us members, the responsibility is not only that of the moderators or admins, but of all of us. We all contributed to it, but some of us are entrusted with more responsibility and power in this process of making CS a better place, and hence, are hold to a higher level of standard. I am talking about the admins and moderators.
My original post that started this thread had nothing to do with the bride and the 2 photographers. They were of course the catalysts for the thousands of words that were written in the last 2 days. It had nothing to do with the exact reasons the moderator gave why the thread in question was closed. The key is to give a reason and explanantion. This was not provided until I posted this thread. The reasons and explanantions given for a particular "executive" action, may or may not be bought off by the rest of the members of this forum, but nonetheless, reasons and explanantions must be given for these kind of actions.
Again, to the admins and moderators, thank you for inviting us in and maintaining the forum. However, please do not forget that CS is today all because of not only the admins and moderators, but also the members. Since the moderators are entrusted with more "powers", they must be hold to a higher standard. A member can make comments without reading through the thread, but a moderator cannot, a member can psot something and the consequence is bared by one person, but a post by a moderator represents the forum administration.
This thread was started when I was totally fustrated by the action of the moderator. As it progressed, I not only saw a healthy dialog among the members, but also a beginning of a 2 way communication between the moderators and the members. This is very important, and I hope this is only the beginning of a growing trend.