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Actually my suggestion to a lot of these "make Clubsnap friendlier" advocates is to be the change you want to see. Want Clubsnap to be newbie friendly? Take the time to lambast the people you think are overly harsh, while providing a solution for the people who are confused (Because blasting them just helps no one but yourself feel good)... Rather than sit around on a high armchair, and sit there and talk shop without doing anything - nothing is going to change that way, except one more thread with one more complaint, and the world moves on the way it does even without your 5 cents 10 cents.
Ask yourself today - have you helped anyone out in your 2 years, 5 years here? How many bad examples have you seen - have you provided a good example? Else you are no different from the person who says "eating shark's fin soup is very bad! So cruel to sharks", and then the very next day, goes to a Chinese restaurant and orders top grade shark's fin soup.
In any case, this is really a very dead horse, I've seen these threads pop up now and then, but I have never seen the vocal people do anything more than complain or make random attacks at the "Google is your best friend" gang. You think the situation is so bad, what's stopping you from making a difference, is the question I always wanted to ask. All talk no action.