this is a forums, this is a community, and the admin and moderators are the ones steering the image of this community. just like how the government steers the image of a country. there is a difference between ME telling people what to do, and what the authorities tell people to do. as tired as it sounds, they DO have a right to decide what's in and what's not, whether we like it or not. and this is an appeal to THEM to take sleaze out. nothing wrong with expressing a view publicly, since people here do it all the time, informed or not.
escapism is a very lame excuse to me. i mean, if your community members use self-flagellation as an excuse of escapism (take for example, nonphotography) and majority of the members are put off by this - then i would think that the authorities should make a stand rather than sit in a corner and try to play nice. else they risk losing the faith (and support) of the members.
a trend is easily put down when it is in its early stage. let it sink its rot and it will be hard.
so if the organisers start to come up with threads entitled "rub yourself hard against d-cup jane this saturday" (jane for example, i can't think of any more neutral name), you'll be all for it? glory to you then.