persistent wooer...help!

[lsisaxon]

talk about leave.when i'm on leave and i dont reach by 9, he'll msg me 'u on leave?', 'are u ok?', 'r u ill'?

Walao.. Or reply "None of your biz"? Continue to give him cold shoulders, if need to talk to him, be specific that it's just for work and nothing more, don't even treat him as a friend. Or shall one of us go tell him in his face, "Stop pestering my fiance!"?

 

[zaren]

tell him u need a supp card of $5k every month

wrong msg lah.

supp card = wife/gf/SO.

:nono:

 

[night86mare]

You speak with a voice of experience. :bsmilie: :bsmilie:

Welllll.. :embrass:

 

[contaxable]

since your office has an "s" lady spounged with a quarte bottle of parfume daily, tell that s girl to chase him instead. The triangular friendship would somehow leave a crack for you to get outa that guy's fantasy.

Sometimes, peer influence helps. Have your other colleagues to tell him off their way.

To him, love is blind and he enjoys bashing directly from you (in chinese, to scold is to like, to hit is to love). To you, this kinda love is scump and a disgusting feeling.

For the action he did sniffing your jacket, you could have reported the case to HR.

 

[eow]

since your office has an "s" lady spounged with a quarte bottle of parfume daily, tell that s girl to chase him instead. The triangular friendship would somehow leave a crack for you to get outa that guy's fantasy.

Sometimes, peer influence helps. Have your other colleagues to tell him off their way.

To him, love is blind and he enjoys bashing directly from you (in chinese, to scold is to like, to hit is to love). To you, this kinda love is scump and a disgusting feeling.

For the action he did sniffing your jacket, you could have reported the case to HR.

can just imagine for all we know.....he might also be searching thru her rubbish bin for any of the trash she throw away:sweat:

 

[contaxable]

can just imagine for all we know.....he might also be searching thru her rubbish bin for any of the trash she throw away:sweat:

Actually, that chap needs help. something/someone has to knock him off his fantasy. Usually, such social behavior is best delt with in a group through peer influence to steer the individual out of his/her fantasy. The only other way is to have him head hunted to another firm or have him fired and then bye bye!

 

[leejay]

1. Bree-mania
2. S.H.E.-mania
3. Jaymania
4. Jeanie-mania

:bsmilie:

 

[raincool2005]

can just imagine for all we know.....he might also be searching thru her rubbish bin for any of the trash she throw away:sweat:

do u know ? heard in NTU hostels, ladies' undergarments were often stolen while drying outdoors.:devil:

:sweat:

 

[jeanie]

i thought you said you tried the bf option already and it did not work....

my previous 'bf' not as yandao as u mah!

before you pm me and ask what yandao is,
yandao=handsome:bsmilie:

 

[jeanie]

Remember: never look into his eyes when both of you speaks.

don't even bother to look at him at all. lower down your head.

looking at eyes, isnt that basic courtesy?:dunno:

 

[jeanie]

speaking with head lowered all the time gives the body language of being weak and submissive. better to have a straight, assertive posture that exudes power and control.

i agree

 

[leejay]

do u know ? heard in NTU hostels, ladies' undergarments were often stolen while drying outdoors.:devil:

:sweat:

Not now, mate. Patrols and cctvs are all over the halls.

 

[jeanie]

i woke up early and reach office at 0730 hrs.
i didnt see him at the lift lobby!
YEH!!!!!!!!!!!!:gbounce:

 

[leejay]

By the way, since you guys mention eyes - I have seen Jeanie and I am certain that she does have some charms, especially her eyes. ^^

 

[jeanie]

it's been nice to vent out here in kopitiam.
really appreciate you guys' concern, be it genuine or just to chalk post.(though it doesnt count):bsmilie:

 

[deckard]

i woke up early and reach office at 0730 hrs.
i didnt see him at the lift lobby!
YEH!!!!!!!!!!!!:gbounce:

maybe he is giving you a surprise later! :bsmilie:

 

[eow]

By the way, since you guys mention eyes - I have seen Jeanie and I am certain that she does have some charms, especially her eyes. ^^

in person or someone's gallery?;p

 

[~Arcanic~]

i woke up early and reach office at 0730 hrs.
i didnt see him at the lift lobby!
YEH!!!!!!!!!!!!:gbounce:

well... congrats then.

good luck with this guy... since he is that persistent, then you can also be a persistent "rejecter".. just keep on rejecting him, eventually even the most thick skulled person should understand ba...

 

[jeanie]

well... congrats then.

good luck with this guy... since he is that persistent, then you can also be a persistent "rejecter".. just keep on rejecting him, eventually even the most thick skulled person should understand ba...

i have been doing that for almost the past 6 months.
persistent rejection.

 

[wind30]

By the way, since you guys mention eyes - I have seen Jeanie and I am certain that she does have some charms, especially her eyes. ^^

I don't usually post this but

NPNT!

Anyone has any pics of Jeanie to share

Not OT but needs to know how chio Jeanie is before advising right? I mean if she looks like a pig, the best advice I can give, is grab that guy . If she looks like a million bucks (at least she usually sound like 10 million bucks on the forum), then aiya just tell that guy she is attached lor. or get the most muscular he-man on CS to pose as her BF lor.