Yes, already considered all these facts. That's why I've been following my mind so far. But there are many ppl that seems very supportive abt following the heart. ~hai...
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Yes, already considered all these facts. That's why I've been following my mind so far. But there are many ppl that seems very supportive abt following the heart. ~hai...
Tell her and see what happens.
Love can be a many splendid thing. :heart:
Kelly Clarkson - The Trouble With Love Is
Love can be a many splendid thing
Has another joy you bring
A dozen roses
Diamond rings
Dreams for sale
And fairy tales
It’ll make you hear a symphony
And you’ll just want the world to see
But like a drunk that makes you blind
It’ll fool you every time
The trouble with love is
It can tear you up inside
Make your heart believe a lie
Gets stronger then your pride
The trouble with love is
It doesn’t care how fast you fall
And you can’t refuse the call
See you’ve got no say at all
Now I was just a once a fool it’s true
I played the game by all the rules
But now my world’s a deeper blue
I’m sadder but I’m wiser too
I swore I’d never love again
I swore my heart would never mend
Said love wasn’t worth the pain
But then I hear it call my name
The trouble with love is
It can tear you up inside
Make your heart believe a lie
Gets stronger then your pride
The trouble with love is
It doesn’t care how fast you fall
And you can’t refuse the call
See you’ve got no say at all
Every time I turn around
I think I’ve got it all
My heart keeps callin
And I keep on fallin
Over and over again
This set story always ends the same
Me standin in the pouring rain
It seems no matter what I do
It tears my heart in two
The trouble with love is (the trouble with love)
It can tear you up inside (it can tear you up in side)
Make your heart believe a lie (Make your heart believe a lie)
Gets stronger then your pride
(The trouble with love is) See your heart its in your soul
(It doesn’t care how fast you fall) You wont remember control (?)
(And you can’t refuse the call)
See you’ve got no say at all
The trouble with love is (Oooo….ya)
It can tear you up inside
Make your heart believe a lie (the trouble with love..)
Love can be a many splendid thing. :heart:
Kelly Clarkson - The Trouble With Love Is
Love can be a many splendid thing
Has another joy you bring
A dozen roses
Diamond rings
Dreams for sale
And fairy tales
It’ll make you hear a symphony
And you’ll just want the world to see
But like a drunk that makes you blind
It’ll fool you every time
The trouble with love is
It can tear you up inside
Make your heart believe a lie
Gets stronger then your pride
The trouble with love is
It doesn’t care how fast you fall
And you can’t refuse the call
See you’ve got no say at all
Now I was just a once a fool it’s true
I played the game by all the rules
But now my world’s a deeper blue
I’m sadder but I’m wiser too
I swore I’d never love again
I swore my heart would never mend
Said love wasn’t worth the pain
But then I hear it call my name
The trouble with love is
It can tear you up inside
Make your heart believe a lie
Gets stronger then your pride
The trouble with love is
It doesn’t care how fast you fall
And you can’t refuse the call
See you’ve got no say at all
Every time I turn around
I think I’ve got it all
My heart keeps callin
And I keep on fallin
Over and over again
This set story always ends the same
Me standin in the pouring rain
It seems no matter what I do
It tears my heart in two
The trouble with love is (the trouble with love)
It can tear you up inside (it can tear you up in side)
Make your heart believe a lie (Make your heart believe a lie)
Gets stronger then your pride
(The trouble with love is) See your heart its in your soul
(It doesn’t care how fast you fall) You wont remember control (?)
(And you can’t refuse the call)
See you’ve got no say at all
The trouble with love is (Oooo….ya)
It can tear you up inside
Make your heart believe a lie (the trouble with love..)
You have to think about what you hope to achieve by telling her that you love her. Do you wish that your feelings were reciprocated? Personally, I find that most people say 'I love you', hoping to have their feelings reciprocated. Often, they get disappointed if their feelings weren't reciprocated.
DOES THIS GIRL EVEN LIKES YOU? All all intent and purposes, she will REJECT your advances :dunno:
Tell her! :cheergal: GO GO GO!
I think you're just looking for some support from people her to tell you not to tell her. If you've already found your answer, then no point asking right?
I think you're just looking for some support from people her to tell you not to tell her. If you've already found your answer, then no point asking right?
Depends on what kind of life you are in living or in search of....
A Life of Happiness: Live for the present with no regards for the past or the future. Take what you have at the moment, say what you mean and project your thoughts and feelings forward.
A Life of Meaning: Live life with all aspects of the past events coinciding with your present and a never-ending obsession for the future. Connect the dots together to finalize on an acquired meaning you'll soon realize in the next few decades.
Choose One.
A Life of Happiness: Live for the present with no regards for the past or the future. Take what you have at the moment, say what you mean and project your thoughts and feelings forward.
A Life of Meaning: Live life with all aspects of the past events coinciding with your present and a never-ending obsession for the future. Connect the dots together to finalize on an acquired meaning you'll soon realize in the next few decades.
Choose One.
Tell Her About It ~ Billy Joel
Listen boy
Dont want to see you let a good thing
Slip away
You know I dont like watching
Anybody make the same mistakes
I made
Shes a real nice girl
And shes always there for you
But a nice girl wouldnt tell you what you should do
Listen boy
Im sure that you think you got it all
Under control
You dont want somebody telling you
The way to stay in someones soul
Youre a big boy now
Youll never let her go
But thats just the kind of thing
She ought to know
Tell her about it
Tell her everything you feel
Give her every reason to accept
That youre for real
Tell her about it
Tell her all your crazy dreams
Let her know you need her
Let her know how much she means
Listen boy
Its not automatically a certain guarantee
To insure yourself
Youve got to provide communication constantly
When you love someone
Youre always insecure
And theres only one good way
To reassure
Tell her about it
Let her know how much you care
When she cant be with you
Tell her you wish you were there
Tell her about it
Every day before you leave
Pay her some attention
Give her something to believe
Cause now and then
Shell get to worrying
Just because you havent spoken
For so long
Though you may not have done anything
Will that be a consolation when shes gone
Listen boy
Its good information from a man
Whos made mistakes
Just a word or two that she gets from you
Could be the difference that it makes
Shes a trusting soul
Shes put her trust in you
But a girl like that wont tell you
What you should do
Tell her about it
Tell her everything you feel
Give her every reason
To accept that youre for real
Tell her about it
Tell her all your crazy dreams
Let her know you need her
Let her know how much she means
Tell her about it
Tell her how you feel right now
Tell her about it
The girl dont want to wait too long
You got to tell her about it
Tell her now and you wont go wrong
You got to tell her about it
Before it gets too late
You got to tell her about it
You know the girl dont want
To wait--you got to
Tell her about it
BTW he wrote that for a supermodel and then married her...
Listen boy
Dont want to see you let a good thing
Slip away
You know I dont like watching
Anybody make the same mistakes
I made
Shes a real nice girl
And shes always there for you
But a nice girl wouldnt tell you what you should do
Listen boy
Im sure that you think you got it all
Under control
You dont want somebody telling you
The way to stay in someones soul
Youre a big boy now
Youll never let her go
But thats just the kind of thing
She ought to know
Tell her about it
Tell her everything you feel
Give her every reason to accept
That youre for real
Tell her about it
Tell her all your crazy dreams
Let her know you need her
Let her know how much she means
Listen boy
Its not automatically a certain guarantee
To insure yourself
Youve got to provide communication constantly
When you love someone
Youre always insecure
And theres only one good way
To reassure
Tell her about it
Let her know how much you care
When she cant be with you
Tell her you wish you were there
Tell her about it
Every day before you leave
Pay her some attention
Give her something to believe
Cause now and then
Shell get to worrying
Just because you havent spoken
For so long
Though you may not have done anything
Will that be a consolation when shes gone
Listen boy
Its good information from a man
Whos made mistakes
Just a word or two that she gets from you
Could be the difference that it makes
Shes a trusting soul
Shes put her trust in you
But a girl like that wont tell you
What you should do
Tell her about it
Tell her everything you feel
Give her every reason
To accept that youre for real
Tell her about it
Tell her all your crazy dreams
Let her know you need her
Let her know how much she means
Tell her about it
Tell her how you feel right now
Tell her about it
The girl dont want to wait too long
You got to tell her about it
Tell her now and you wont go wrong
You got to tell her about it
Before it gets too late
You got to tell her about it
You know the girl dont want
To wait--you got to
Tell her about it
BTW he wrote that for a supermodel and then married her...
But what's the point that if 4 mths later we got to part ?
It's either the most beautiful 4mths or lose a close friend.
It's either the most beautiful 4mths or lose a close friend.
So you're saying she's the type who won't even consider friendship if the both of you can't be together as a couple?
1. If she is that type of girl, then IMO she isn't mature enough.
2. If she isn't, then why not?
after 3-4 months, u will be singing to her:
Hold, hold me for a while
I know this won't last forever
So hold, hold me tonight
Before the morning takes you away
Hold, hold me for a while....
What's that sparkle in your eyes?
Is it tears that I see?
Oh tomorrow you are gone
So tomorrow I'm alone
Short moments of time
We have left to share our love
Hold, hold me for a while
I know this won't last forever
So hold, hold me tonight
Before the morning takes you away
We're in each others arms
Soon we're miles apart
Can you imagine how I'll miss,
Your touch and your kiss?
Short moments of time
We have left to share our love
Hold, hold me for a while....
Hold, hold me now,
From dusk, all night to dawn
Save, save me now,
A short moment of time
damn..its a beautiful song...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G49Wrk8VZ5A
the original version of the video which did not do justice to the beautiful song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E822lknX1GM
Hold, hold me for a while
I know this won't last forever
So hold, hold me tonight
Before the morning takes you away
Hold, hold me for a while....
What's that sparkle in your eyes?
Is it tears that I see?
Oh tomorrow you are gone
So tomorrow I'm alone
Short moments of time
We have left to share our love
Hold, hold me for a while
I know this won't last forever
So hold, hold me tonight
Before the morning takes you away
We're in each others arms
Soon we're miles apart
Can you imagine how I'll miss,
Your touch and your kiss?
Short moments of time
We have left to share our love
Hold, hold me for a while....
Hold, hold me now,
From dusk, all night to dawn
Save, save me now,
A short moment of time
damn..its a beautiful song...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G49Wrk8VZ5A
the original version of the video which did not do justice to the beautiful song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E822lknX1GM
hey... go study first lah...
Since you've already made a commitment to study overseas for the next 3-4 years, you should stay focus. Are you ready for another heavy commitment on top of your studies? No doubt that there are many success stories of long distance relationship. But do you know how much the couple have to go thru to keep the love strong? I'm sure you will meet many interesting people out there.
Since you've already made a commitment to study overseas for the next 3-4 years, you should stay focus. Are you ready for another heavy commitment on top of your studies?
No doubt that there are many success stories of long distance relationship. But do you know how much the couple have to go thru to keep the love strong? I'm sure you will meet many interesting people out there. 
I don't think he is undecided, just that he must be scared out of his wits to even say it. We are still a very conservative society and gals are not expected to openly express their love to a guy but the guy is expected to be the one saying 'I Love You' part.frankly speaking, TS, I am gonna hurt your feeling, so pardon me.
This is for your own good.
If u cannot even makeup your mind, how would u expect her to have any faith in you..
You dun even noe what will happen (lyou aid your direction/path?), and what u will able to promise her in the next 3-4years (@ overseas)..)
Worst, u dun noe whether u want her to wait for you...OMG.!
You must have consideration for her, time=youth!! ...it's 3-4 years, not 3-4 months.!!
If u like her, then follow your heart, stop think here think there...and set your path straight, tell her...and both of u (u and the gal) plan...
if you are unsure, forget it... dun waste her time...
...............Hope I am not too harsh, Hope it help..................................................
From a lady point of view.. (we dun like undecisivie guy!)
In my view, just do it. I mean just express your love to her and let her decide. Even if she rejects you, at least the load is off your shoulder and you can concentrate on what lies ahead, new relationships/studies/etc..
Do it Man, just do it.
P.S. Heartbreak takes a while to recover from, so do so if you are fully prepared.
. If you want a chance of success, bowl her over with an event she cannot forget, plan for it properly at the right moment at a special place and remember what song is played whatever, just in case she becomes your wife, it gives a lot of mileage in future, trust me on this one. Women remembers every detail. :bsmilie: ../azul123
This thread is turning into a musical. Didn't know you could do a musical in a forum :bsmilie:
All the best to you manx. Whichever choice you make, I wish you the best of luck!
All the best to you manx. Whichever choice you make, I wish you the best of luck!
Aiyah, been there, done that for me...
Although there was no happy ending for me, at least it was so sweet while it lasted. Live life with no regrets. You never know how your life will pan out... Seriously! Let yourself go and just give in to that dizzying heights on longing and loving feeling!
Although there was no happy ending for me, at least it was so sweet while it lasted. Live life with no regrets. You never know how your life will pan out... Seriously! Let yourself go and just give in to that dizzying heights on longing and loving feeling!
YOu are still so young. You may meet other people overseas. So many things can happen - so many permutations...
I think you should just tell her that you're going away. Tell her that while realistically it may not work out long distance, if she is willing to make the effort, you guys can just give it a go. But if it doesn't work out, both just walk away from this as friends.
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jinny
I think you should just tell her that you're going away. Tell her that while realistically it may not work out long distance, if she is willing to make the effort, you guys can just give it a go. But if it doesn't work out, both just walk away from this as friends.
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