how to handle our char bo.....?
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Ok, this is what my female friend sent to me sometime back. There holds some element of truth in it. But not all are true thou....
With regards to TS, here's my interpretation of the situation.
No.4) That's the reason why u are married now.
No.8) That's just to console themselves to make them guilt-free in the event they are the childish ones. Put it plainly, POT CALLING THE KETTLE BLACK!
No.9) That's why TS is in the plight he is in...
No.12) Indeed, that's why we never ever can understand woman fully...
No.13) That's why they always find fault with us. They dunno how to be contented with what they have.
Yes, from the above, woman seems like a bunch of incorrigible unreasonable people.
But, think about it.
Why did u choose to marry her?(Because u love her, u want to provide her with happiness)
Why is she vying for your attention?(Because she cares about u, because she wants u think to about nothing but her)
Why are they unreasonable towards u only?(Nope, not because u are an easy target. U know, just the typical seeking for attention gimmicks used by them)
U marry her to give her happiness, continue to do so and u will find that u will find your happiness too. Women derive happiness from Men, like-wise, Men derive happiness from Women. Someone have to provide the other with the happiness first.
Take a step back and cast your pride aside for a little moment. If she's happy, u r happy too. If she's unhappy, will u be happy? Think about it
Afterall, u would like to see your loved ones lead a happy life isn't it?
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With regards to TS, here's my interpretation of the situation.
No.4) That's the reason why u are married now.
No.8) That's just to console themselves to make them guilt-free in the event they are the childish ones. Put it plainly, POT CALLING THE KETTLE BLACK!
No.9) That's why TS is in the plight he is in...
No.12) Indeed, that's why we never ever can understand woman fully...
No.13) That's why they always find fault with us. They dunno how to be contented with what they have.
Yes, from the above, woman seems like a bunch of incorrigible unreasonable people.
But, think about it.
Why did u choose to marry her?(Because u love her, u want to provide her with happiness)
Why is she vying for your attention?(Because she cares about u, because she wants u think to about nothing but her)
Why are they unreasonable towards u only?(Nope, not because u are an easy target. U know, just the typical seeking for attention gimmicks used by them)
U marry her to give her happiness, continue to do so and u will find that u will find your happiness too. Women derive happiness from Men, like-wise, Men derive happiness from Women. Someone have to provide the other with the happiness first.
Take a step back and cast your pride aside for a little moment. If she's happy, u r happy too. If she's unhappy, will u be happy? Think about it
Afterall, u would like to see your loved ones lead a happy life isn't it?
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haha. damn getting married seems like such a horrible thing. i like this
Men are like Parking Spots. All the good ones are taken, the rest
are handicapped.
agree! all the men i want seem unattainable
Men are like Parking Spots. All the good ones are taken, the rest
are handicapped.
agree! all the men i want seem unattainable
haha. damn getting married seems like such a horrible thing. i like this
Men are like Parking Spots. All the good ones are taken, the rest
are handicapped.
agree! all the men i want seem unattainable
My reply is this:
No.13) That's why they always find fault with us. They dunno how to be contented with what they have.
Your standard too high lah. Try to look at the guys from a different perspective. Actually when u truly love someone, u will find that u will naturally accept their flaws too....
No one is perfect
All the girls i want, do not like good guys. So...yeah...haha. damn getting married seems like such a horrible thing. i like this
Men are like Parking Spots. All the good ones are taken, the rest
are handicapped.
agree! all the men i want seem unattainable
GMAN
Nope. Emotionally they must be nice to the females to get what they want. Once permitted, they can show who's the "Daddy"
GMAN
Actually right now we are debating about men and women. If you were to ask a married couple and how they thought about their partners, the answer would have been totally different.My reply is this:
No.13) That's why they always find fault with us. They dunno how to be contented with what they have.
Your standard too high lah. Try to look at the guys from a different perspective. Actually when u truly love someone, u will find that u will naturally accept their flaws too....
No one is perfect
The girl might say: "My husband...well, he's cute la"...Blah blah...state some of the negative stuff. But in the end she might end with "I love him to bits."
The guy might say: Well, she's nice...Blah Blah....state some of the negative stuff too. But in the end, he might end with "She's my girl and i love her"
The key to a good marriage is to be the same as you had been before during dating. Why do men go wayward? It's not because the wive has become a little bigger after child birth or so. But infact that the way she treated him before was different to the way she's treating him today.
Before she might have been treating him like a child. Friendly, caring, etc. But now after with the child and work, she gets tensed and stuff, the same things she did before, she fails to do it now.
So that is 1 important key factor. Your relationship has to be the same as of when you were dating. It can change a little, but only for the better. Of course i'd wished the men would be a little more understanding and not expect much. But that is how we were made. We are physically strong, but emotionally weak. Women are the entire opposite. Emotionally strong and physically weak. It's like the ying and the yang. Can't live without each other, even to as much as you say that you hate the other gender. When you die, you'll regret those words.
GMAN
One guy in particular, when he looked into my eyes, told me "The gods must have stolen the stars in the sky and put them in your eyes".
how to handle charbo? Look at my thread http://www.clubsnap.com/forums/showpost.php?p=4993002&postcount=33 someone's angry ex gf.. hahaha. How to handle? Never ever do them wrong, they've v long memory
U mean.... Like that....:love2:
Aiyoh.... So mushy:ipuke:
Haha, but it's nevertheless, a good life skill:bsmilie:
It took you a while to notice that. Haha. I'm solo guy. Never had a GF. Never felt love from a girl. So my sorrow is within me.
GMAN
Wow. Nice phrasing of the words. Haha. So you and him. Got together? Haha. Mushy. Mushroom!
GMAN
Huh? A memorable pick-up line indeed. That was too long ago already. I only treated him as a friend.
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