How do you...

[Ninja23XX]

Sometimes things are already quite complicated le. So if possible, try to simplify it.. Ring abit too much le. She confirm get a shock one. Teddy bear bear might work, if she's into such mushy stuff.

Ok, shall not go so drastic. Haha. She likes tatty teddy. Haha.


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[Ninja23XX]

holding her hand is just that simple lo
must the wedding part u really have to prove yourself le

Haha. I already planned how my wedding will look like. Budget also put aside. Haha. $50-60K good enough?


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[raptor1988]

Wah. So drama. If my dad driving by that road. You can say bye bye to me. Haha.


GMAN

must be tactical la.. situational awareness. :thumbsup:

 

[raptor1988]

Haha. I already planned how my wedding will look like. Budget also put aside. Haha. $50-60K good enough?


GMAN

no need think so far la.. Chase dao her then say. :sweat:

 

[kkenji]

when it comes to this kinda stuff, its natural to feel "humji" or shy etc..

from my experience though i got not much or can say none..

call her , meet up with her..nice dinner n go somewhere quiet and nice...then ask her..

i feel its very insincere to ask over sms or msn..

face to face is much better..that she knows that you really mean it and not just say it only.

go for it bro..

its like buying a camera..dont scard price..work for it if you really like it..know that you need it and will love it last min dont humji go buy !!

 

[Ninja23XX]

must be tactical la.. situational awareness. :thumbsup:

Haha. Ya. Must use UMA to scout area. Haha.


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[Ericang]

bro ... i suggest that you dun think about wedding first ...
after all, wedding is not you plan one

she is the one going to plan it.

during my wedding, i got no say...
i just pay pay pay .. she just say say say ....

50 - 60k is on the high side already. unless you are lookin at a posh hotel with 30 40 tables and a designer label grown and suit..

over all, my wedding at Novotel only set me back $30+ k

 

[Ninja23XX]

no need think so far la.. Chase dao her then say. :sweat:

Haha. Ya. I mean generally even before i liked her. I planned out quite some thing already.


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[Ninja23XX]

bro ... i suggest that you dun think about wedding first ...
after all, wedding is not you plan one

she is the one going to plan it.

during my wedding, i got no say...
i just pay pay pay .. she just say say say ....

50 - 60k is on the high side already. unless you are lookin at a posh hotel with 30 40 tables and a designer label grown and suit..

over all, my wedding at Novotel only set me back $30+ k

Aiyo. She say say. Haha. You let go right. Because at night you get the big gift. Haha. :bsmilie: I think 50K should be just nice. I want to spend more money on a house instead. But marriage is once in a life time. Should let her be happy.


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[Ninja23XX]

Quiet liao. :bsmilie:


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[Ericang]

Aiyo. She say say. Haha. You let go right. Because at night you get the big gift. Haha. :bsmilie: I think 50K should be just nice. I want to spend more money on a house instead. But marriage is once in a life time. Should let her be happy.


GMAN

ya lo .... important is she must be happy
so i let her make all the decision until she happy happy happy ~~~

but bro... dun think so far yet
look at the current situation now first...
plan a date with her to hold her hands...
not hold the wedding
hehehee :bsmilie::bsmilie::bsmilie::bsmilie:

 

[Ninja23XX]

ya lo .... important is she must be happy
so i let her make all the decision until she happy happy happy ~~~

but bro... dun think so far yet
look at the current situation now first...
plan a date with her to hold her hands...
not hold the wedding
hehehee :bsmilie::bsmilie::bsmilie::bsmilie:

Ya. Haha. Oh man fuzzy inside, thinking of me holding hands with her.


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[evo-lution]

Wah. So drama. If my dad driving by that road. You can say bye bye to me. Haha.


GMAN

Rest assure, if i'm your Dad, I will FLOOR THE ACCELERATOR:bsmilie:

Ok, shall not go so drastic. Haha. She likes tatty teddy. Haha.


GMAN

U be glad that she loves these things:bsmilie: Otherwise.... U will really pull hair thinking of what to get her.....

Haha. I already planned how my wedding will look like. Budget also put aside. Haha. $50-60K good enough?


GMAN

$60K.... Depends u noe. Of course not enuf for that type of very dreamy dreamy wedding lah... Like wow, wedding of the century kinda stuff....

Just think lah.... Banquet, for a above avg one, can already easily hit 1K per table.... so if 50tables, $50K flies away liao.... But of course muz factor in Angpow offset lah....:bsmilie:

But for a normal common guy wedding, it's more than enuf....

 

[raptor1988]

U be glad that she loves these things:bsmilie: Otherwise.... U will really pull hair thinking of what to get her.....

I'm back! :bsmilie: just finish cleaning up.

True.. Getting gifts is hard. Too common, no fun. Too un-common, very expensive. :sweat:

Wedding spend $60K too much le. If can i'll hold mine in a semi-class hotel. The rest save for new home renovation. Honey moon also no need spend too much. As long as both enjoy can already. Don't have to be too lavish. More important that the marriage can last. :heart:

 

[raptor1988]

Ya. Haha. Oh man fuzzy inside, thinking of me holding hands with her.


GMAN

Don't think too much. Later you lose focus of your target. :nono:

 

[evo-lution]

I'm back! :bsmilie: just finish cleaning up.

True.. Getting gifts is hard. Too common, no fun. Too un-common, very expensive. :sweat:

Wedding spend $60K too much le. If can i'll hold mine in a semi-class hotel. The rest save for new home renovation. Honey moon also no need spend too much. As long as both enjoy can already. Don't have to be too lavish. More important that the marriage can last. :heart:

U noe, at times, not up to u to decide.... Sometimes, lavish weddings are a necessity. Why? Because u have a social status to keep up with. A certain social image.

Imagine, if u r a CEO of a MNC, U hold your banquet at a let's say 3star hotel. And u invite all your business associates there to join in the celebration. Question is, what r they going to think...

Yes, alot of people will say it doesn't matter n things like tht from the self console perspective(no, i'm not a spoilt brad who splurge mentality)...... But at the end of the day, u juz look at what these people does.... U will be surprised that it's nothing like they said prior to the wedding itself....:bsmilie:

 

[raptor1988]

Imagine, if u r a CEO of a MNC, U hold your banquet at a let's say 3star hotel. And u invite all your business associates there to join in the celebration. Question is, what r they going to think...

:sweat:

Yes, alot of people will say it doesn't matter n things like tht from the self console perspective(no, i'm not a spoilt brad who splurge mentality)...... But at the end of the day, u juz look at what these people does.... U will be surprised that it's nothing like they said prior to the wedding itself....:bsmilie:

:think: need time to digest.. quite cheem..

 

[Leong23]

classic cliche way. When running across the road go hold her hand. :lovegrin:

The is really a proven!!!!! Seriously give a try.

If you are really close to the gal, try a do something different slowly to show your love/concern to her, things like you normally don't really do, but do take small step at a time, if not you might shock her and she might just reject you as she dunno how to react at that moment of time.

Things that you can do (dunno how close btw you two, so some of the thing you might had done)
- sent her to school/workplace
- walk her home
- Call/sms her as and when - on anything
- Sms her Good morning, Taken your lunch/Dinner, Good Night everyday
- Just her out for movie and shopping
- Ask her along to friends gathering

Slowly make yourselves as part of her life, and your heart will tell you when is the right time to strike, like holding hands and run across the road.

But if she don't really wanted you to be her partner, she will slowly hint you too.....that way, at least you wouldn't lose the friendship

 

[Ninja23XX]

Rest assure, if i'm your Dad, I will FLOOR THE ACCELERATOR:bsmilie:



U be glad that she loves these things:bsmilie: Otherwise.... U will really pull hair thinking of what to get her.....



$60K.... Depends u noe. Of course not enuf for that type of very dreamy dreamy wedding lah... Like wow, wedding of the century kinda stuff....

Just think lah.... Banquet, for a above avg one, can already easily hit 1K per table.... so if 50tables, $50K flies away liao.... But of course muz factor in Angpow offset lah....:bsmilie:

But for a normal common guy wedding, it's more than enuf....

Haha. My dad will follow me. Gather intel and then give me lecture at home. Lectures that i can sleep in. Haha. Ang pow ah. Depends la. Anyway, still far from it. I got to catch the fish first.


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[Ninja23XX]

I'm back! :bsmilie: just finish cleaning up.

True.. Getting gifts is hard. Too common, no fun. Too un-common, very expensive. :sweat:

Wedding spend $60K too much le. If can i'll hold mine in a semi-class hotel. The rest save for new home renovation. Honey moon also no need spend too much. As long as both enjoy can already. Don't have to be too lavish. More important that the marriage can last. :heart:

True. A home is a place where we would live for years. That's more important.


GMAN