Although this thread went off tangent in the middle (sorry to the initiator), I did not sense that anyone was trying to say that the party was outright wrong. It was a case of different opinions and emphasis. I think this is what forum is about - opposing views, different view angle, etc... and utlimately we all get something out which we may not see by sitting at the bottom of the well. Presenting a constructing argument show that the poster has his self believe/experience/etc, whether right or wrong, you agree or not, is not a bad sign. I m sure you will agree that there are many examples in forums, this included, where parrot just echo some ''his/her guru' without knowing what he is talking about - why ? Wilwon's arugment, though i dun agree in total, wake me on some basic that i did not place enough emphasis on,,,,, etc...same goes for the others
By saying just get what you whatever want, or whatever that works for you or dun need dun get, then where is the group learning experience.? I dun even dun what I need!!!
No offense intended - I just want to learn and I know I am no good!