Let me try to understand what was posted since I last visited this thread:
1) Be pro human - I think that sounds good on the surface, why not we allow phidophiles, they are also human and why can't we be more acceptable to their lifestyle.. someone argued that Gays at most could be some kind of disorder so maybe phidophiles are also some disorder and so why can't we learn to accept. - Sorry I still cannot accept.
2) It is found in nature that homosexuality is a natural instinct, what the ? anyway, so if it is found to some species that incest is natural we humans should accept it to?
1) paedophiles ARE a disorder, take a look at the background of paedophiles, and you'll see that it isn't quite as simple as some adult who got hooked on child porn and decided that he was going to grab a child. most paedophiles have an unhappy childhood, paired with abuse and inability to please their parents. there is often a reason why they turn out the way they turn out. for more information, take your time to read up on father michael ingram's interviews with paedophiles.
i won't go as far to say that society should forgive trepasses by paedophiles just because of this. there are people with unhappy childhoods who didn't break; but take a moment to reconsider the hard line given to paedophiles. it is often my view that the justice system (and society) overreacts to paedophilic behaviour. there are
always two sides to the coin, almost always a sad story. so yes, judge if you want, but don't shove yourself into the moral high ground - who's to say that if you had gone through their experiences, you won't be there either? will you ever know?
frankly speaking, to be honest, to me, there is no difference between a rape of a child or a rape of an adult; the same amount of damage is done, in different ways - and both are equally despicable to me. but there are paedophiles and there are paedophiles, just like there are homosexuals and there are homosexuals; there is a line that should not be crossed - i've stated this as the general idea of having a negative effect on people's lives. and the real point i'm trying to make here is - put yourself into someone else's shoes, try to walk around in those.
in any case, psychology, and examination of causes and origins of human behaviour is an extremely iffy subject; i doubt anyone today can profess to comprehend these completely, ever. the point i'm trying to make here, is not for you to suddenly change into a person who can accept behaviour, change takes time - but open up your mind:
if a homosexual does things in public, like kissing, holding hands, and he does not cross your path. he doesn't do silly things like what people always joke about, e.g. grab you on the arse because he thinks you're cute; how can you argue that he should not be allowed to do so, without making overdone assumptions, all the "what ifs"?
if you say that exhibition of public homosexual behaviour will mislead our children, then you might as well argue that the same children should be kept at home. our children see things everything, be it socially unacceptable behaviour, exposure to violence, vices.. my question is, are you willing to do the right thing, and teach them the right things - can you shelter them all their life?
2) humans have exhibited incest a long time before, once again, the romans (along with other peoples); animals also exhibit incestous behaviour at times. the ironic part is that due to genetics, incest inherently has detrimental effects to the genetic pool that results.. which probably leads us to today's rules that it is a bad thing.
many laws set in place today, i would think, have a lot to do with weighing overall benefits versus cons, rather than really touching on moral issues.
in any case, i would like to point out again that you are engaging in a strawman argument; if you must come up with points, at least address the issue head-on, give reasons related to the primary subject.
on another note, i do not seek to change your mindset; merely to offer an alternative voice. this is after all, a subject that can lead nowhere. though to be honest, i think the day will come sooner or later, so we might as well accept it now.