Does your partner in life support your habit?

[Quacks]

Originally posted by lavenderlilz
One more thing is - I read this from a book how husbands should understand their wives & I noticed that my husband did practice this "principle", that is, by showing that I am his priority first & cos being female, I feel loved liao, so dun mind him spending time on his hobby.

One basic thing to learn about women is that we all want to feel important & loved by our husbands & bfs.

if it's not ra and if it's possible, can u share how your husband practise the principle?

cuz sometimes guys and girls speak diff languages of love that's why when guy does sth to show girl he loves her, girl don't understand the language of love he spoke.. and vice versa

 

[lavenderlilz]

Originally posted by randomwalk
Can you please start another thread on Women 101? So I can take official note....

Originally posted by Quacks
if it's not ra and if it's possible, can u share how your husband practise the principle?

cuz sometimes guys and girls speak diff languages of love that's why when guy does sth to show girl he loves her, girl don't understand the language of love he spoke.. and vice versa

heh - its got totally nothing to do with RA ;p

Ok will post in awhile cos I cannot be skivving for too long.

Mods - if u r of the view that this should be a separate thread, do feel free to split the thread. Thanks.

 

[randomwalk]

What's RA?

 

[Quacks]

r(A). restricted (artistic) i think

 

[randomwalk]

Ahh you mean those cheeky cheeky stuff right?

 

[sulhan]

And she want to come along to SEED today!!!!!:rbounce: :rbounce: :rbounce:

 

[evildolly]

Originally posted by randomwalk
But you won't nag when he buys you shoes right?

he doesn't=p

but if he did spend 4 digits on me i'd probably faint

but that's beside the point. i still find it hard to believe that everything is in 4 digits... >.<"

Originally posted by RuthBaby
tt guy i met at Pacific Coffee Club?

yes ruthie dear

 

[jeff chen]

I beg to differ. I don't believe that Men are from Mars and Women from Venus stuff. Afterall, we live on the same planet and if you are husband and wife, u live in the same house.

My wife is so intuitively tuned to me that sometimes, I don't even have to utter a single word and she understands me perfectly.

As for those of you who subscribe to the thinking that u need to feel important in order to feel love, u are suffering from what psychologist calls narcissism...kekeke
:bsmilie:

 

[Newman]

Originally posted by jeff chen
My wife is so intuitively tuned to me that sometimes, I don't even have to utter a single word and she understands me perfectly.

You two must be clones!
You are very lucky to have found the right partner. Well, there are people who are not as lucky as you & they have to go through a lot to reach that level you are at right now. It's just like being rich & poor. Some people like moi are not born rich & got to work their butt off to afford an insanely priced DSLR!!!!!

 

[Quacks]

Originally posted by jeff chen
I beg to differ. I don't believe that Men are from Mars and Women from Venus stuff. Afterall, we live on the same planet and if you are husband and wife, u live in the same house.

My wife is so intuitively tuned to me that sometimes, I don't even have to utter a single word and she understands me perfectly.

As for those of you who subscribe to the thinking that u need to feel important in order to feel love, u are suffering from what psychologist calls narcissism...kekeke
:bsmilie:

i do believe that men and women by nature are SOMEWHAT different so it needs proper communication to get to a level of mutual understanding.. being tuned to the right frequency and i'm sure you and your wife having achieved that... well done and very loving but both of your must have had done some sort of tuning..

and what i mentioned about different languages of love is NOT about narcissism and having to feel important.. it is just knowing how your partner loves u and shows his/her love...

let's love everyone... make love (in general...) not war...

 

[jOhO]

wah this is all very valuable information.

well sorree to hear about ur breakup, randomwalk. i had a similar experience once, but it was almost the opp.

she broke up with me becos she thot i was spending too much time on other things (at the time my hobby was starcraft and diablo2 ahahha!!)

not a word from her for MONTHS... and then BANG... see ya later.

didn't help when i found out that over those months, she was cultivating a "friendship" with another guy, who is her present bf. let's hope, for her sake he doesn't have any hobbies. ;p

 

[sadness]

wow

u guys wana start a new thread on "Why we broke up"?

it might really gets alot of attention with such a heading...

:cheers:

 

[jOhO]

Originally posted by sadness
wow

u guys wana start a new thread on "Why we broke up"?

it might really gets alot of attention with such a heading...

:cheers:

ok see u there? :bsmilie: :bsmilie:

 

[NitroTech]

Originally posted by jeff chen

My wife is so intuitively tuned to me that sometimes, I don't even have to utter a single word and she understands me perfectly.

But if she doesn't utter a single word, will you understand her?? ah....... :devil:

 

[randomwalk]

Still waiting on the "Women 101" thread....

 

[MrBig]

*YAWN*

 

[lavenderlilz]

Originally posted by randomwalk
Still waiting on the "Women 101" thread....

Wah give me public reminder somemore ;p

ok lah coming soon. Akan Datang .............

 

[sadness]

Originally posted by jOhO
ok see u there? :bsmilie: :bsmilie:

yeah

i chopped my place.

u guys should consider doing so too!

:cheers:

 

[jOhO]

Originally posted by sadness
yeah

i chopped my place.

u guys should consider doing so too!

:cheers:

lai lai front row tix on sale~~!!

 

[sadness]

Originally posted by jOhO
lai lai front row tix on sale~~!!

heh heh

not forgetting free flowing :cheers: to drown our sorrows away?

yeah babe yeah!!!