The answer to your question is simple--
a. Because people don't like to be criticised;
b. Because people don't like the way you criticise them (I've read some of your posts, they are biting criticism).
As to the rest of it,
* Why people give praise to undeserving pix-- because they don't know better.
* Why posters come up with all kinds of defensive reactions and excuses-- because they don't like to be criticised.
* How can they improve if they don't like to be criticised-- what makes you think they want to improve in the first place? In any case, whether or not someone else improves is not necessarily your concern, is it?
I think people like yourself find, after a while, that if posters don't appreciate their harsh criticism, then they also don't feel like wasting time. Yes, it's a loss for the posters, but on balance everyone is happier, so be it.
That said, I must tell you that your style of harsh critique will create more misunderstanding and unhappiness than it will create learning and enlightenment, so you'll have to think if it's worth it.
You should realise that it is not essential to "comment" on every picture that you come across. If you don't like it, you can simply tune out. If you want to criticise, you must know what is it you want to convey, and what is the purpose of your criticism. Is it to express your displeasure at such a sub-standard picture? Or is it to really help the poster?
To me, saying that hair is messy, eye not equal size, etc. doesn't help the poster. What is needed is ideas on how to make the picture succeed. Some pictures won't succeed even if the hair is neat. Perhaps the whole concept is wrong, or the theme is wrong, or the model can't carry it off. If you really want to help the poster, you have to help him see the big picture in areas such as this. Otherwise, if you just point out that the obvious problems such as messy hair or eyes not same size, it's easy for people to say you are just mudslinging, and hence adopt defensive reactions.
Something to consider : Photo.Net has Words/No Words and CRIT when it comes to posting pictures. Any pix prefixed by "W/NW:" is simply for enjoyment, not for criticism. If you don't like it, you should just move on, no criticism required or necessary. On the other hand, a photo prefaced by "CRIT:" means the poster is asking for critique, and if possible, it should be well-thought-out critique, not just saying "Nice" or "OverPS" or "Just a nitpick, xxx could be better", but how it could have been done, with pros and cons of doing something in a certain way, etc.
Real criticism is hard work, and lots of people can't do it well. That's why generally when I post pictures, I lock the thread-- I like to have it as W/NW.
Wai Leong
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Deadpoet said:
A question to all fellow CS members, when you post pictures, not in the Critique Corner forum, do you want comments and criticisms?
I think if you do not want any comments and criticisms, especially criticisms, you should say so, “criticism not welcome”, then the critics would probably shut up. However, if you do not specifically stated criticism not welcome, we should be able to comment and criticize truthfully.
I have noticed a very disturbing trend, and it’s getting worse. Many viewers, give praises to the most undeserved. The picture sucks and it’s still nice to them. There is this overly polite politically correct tendency to sugar coat criticisms. I found these kind of criticisms most ineffective, inefficient, and insulting at times. If the picture is really that bad, say it. If the hair is messy, the pose is unnatural, the facial expression is that horrible, the set does not make sense, say it truthfully so that the poster can learn and improve.
On the other hand, many posters do not want viewers’ true opinions. As long as the comments are positive, they are great comments. Whenever the viewers criticize, all sort of excuses come out. Messy hair inevitably gets the wind is strong excuse, goofy/horrible expressions will be rebutted by “It’s natural …”, and messed up sets become whimsical/it’s intended to be that way etc etc etc.
This phenomenon of “good comments only” applies not only to newbies, but to established professional photographers too.
With the posters and viewers playing hypocrites, how can we learn from our mistakes, how can we improve and build on our accomplishments.