Why do you love me?

[sORe-EyEz]

Wah pian how pathetic do you think we are that we have to read a wiki and use a love calculator leh heheheheh.... :sticktong

thatz for online relationships? :sweatsm:

my Facebook gf, Friendster gf, etc...

 

[redstone]

at the moment i am not in any position to answer that question, i single mah. add a current gloomy outlook, i say i am too numb. :sweatsm:

so all my talk about relationships are from an ideal & realistic perspective, without being too extreme.

if my relationship is too confusing, i'll see it as a unhealthy 1. so betta run!

Bro.. ask ur opinion.. would u rather chase someone who u doubt u'll end up marrying, or chase someone whom u think would be your future wife?

"Better to regret doing something wrongly than regret not doing it at all"?

 

[sammy888]

thatz for online relationships? :sweatsm:

my Facebook gf, Friendster gf, etc...

wah...you those type har? heheheh

 

[sORe-EyEz]

Hmm yes - must be my maternal instincts for you all

Here you go wiki has the answer:
http://www.wikihow.com/Love

...and just to help you decide whether you should chase or not:
http://www.lovecalculator.com/
:angel:

unfortunately i got no use for the calculator now...

 

[sORe-EyEz]

Bro.. ask ur opinion.. would u rather chase someone who u doubt u'll end up marrying, or chase someone whom u think would be your future wife?

"Better to regret doing something wrongly than regret not doing it at all"?

u forgot?!

i'll love to marry a woman who loves me & that i love to marry as well! :lovegrin:

if my relationship is too confusing, i'll see it as an unhealthy 1. so betta run!

 

[sORe-EyEz]

wah...you those type har? heheheh

me? no lah, that i not so chin chai. :sweat: that kind of relationship no meaning wan. :thumbsd:

my opinion oni lah.

 

[redstone]

u forgot?!

love is hard to find... needs to be mutual, needs fate for 2 of u to meet and able to click... :bheart::bsmilie:

 

[sammy888]

love is hard to find... needs to be mutual, needs fate for 2 of u to meet and able to click... :bheart::bsmilie:

If you are going to wait for "fate" to take a hand to get you there with someone...... it's going to be a long wait bro. heheh If you do come across someone you really like or have some chemistry with. Let me just say..that might be the CLOSEST thing that fact can drag your ass close to....so be pro-active and take the next bold step and close the deal. Whether it will work out or not.

 

[sORe-EyEz]

Ahhh - paw paw guys. There's a song here...."No woman no love"

Now what's a mother's love? Is it selfish? Me don't think so.
It is tolerate, patient, and kind. It is never envious, arrogant or proud.

dunno ah, no MILF ask me this question ler... :sweatsm:

 

[sammy888]

dunno ah, no MILF ask me this question ler... :sweatsm:

hahahahahahahahahahah

 

[sORe-EyEz]

hahahahahahahahahahah

somehow that kind of love can be very daunting. thatz where love can lead to war!

unless still infant ok la, but dan have to be papa liao. instant upgrade! :bsmilie:

 

[dreaming]

If you are going to wait for "fate" to take a hand to get you there with someone...... it's going to be a long wait bro. heheh If you do come across someone you really like or have some chemistry with. Let me just say..that might be the CLOSEST thing that fact can drag your ass close to....so be pro-active and take the next bold step and close the deal. Whether it will work out or not.

well said, sammy. before we were asked 'why do u luv me', gonna take some bold move. if u hv a crush with a lady now, how to proceed? care to give some pointers? how do u know she interested in you too..

BTW, is the avatar called Daniel Wu or Sammy888. very yan-dao! many girls target. ;p

 

[aryanto]

http://www.lovecalculator.com/
:angel:

After you submit you have your figure and there is this fine-print below.

Disclaimer:
It's not possible to get a hundred per cent probabilty, therefore there's no guarantee of any kind that the relationship will work out between these two people.
No record is being kept of any information entered by the user of this program.
The creators of this program are in no way liable of any actions which might be taken by users of this program.
Please note that this site has no serious intention whatsoever.

I type my fullname 2x and I got 84% score! :sweatsm:

 

[MRSAMO]

I know what the problem is for guys like sammy888 in Singapore, the girls are too spoilt.

Sammy there are millions of other girls in the world waiting for you to meet, get out of that hole and build something above ground :-D

 

[sammy888]

I know what the problem is for guys like sammy888 in Singapore, the girls are too spoilt.

Sammy there are millions of other girls in the world waiting for you to meet, get out of that hole and build something above ground :-D

eh.... maybe it got lost in translation somewhere but...I assure you I am not bitter but abit jaded with the Singapore ladies and I am not deseparately looking hheheh.... I am fine with the way my life is heading...it's been like this for more then a decade...by choice. I do have alot of women friends and with benefits if I choose to but I almost always don't. heheh so...don't over analyse it leh ..for me anyway heheh.

 

[MRSAMO]

Sorry Sammy888, I skipped 5-6 pages and only read the fiirst couple Not lost in translation, just my lazy ass reading through the pages.

I thought you were the lonely one so needed help, sorry I mistake hahah.

I am waiting for the right person, right moment and right time for me to realise that I really need somebody to walk this life with me together.

 

[sammy888]

well said, sammy. before we were asked 'why do u luv me', gonna take some bold move. if u hv a crush with a lady now, how to proceed? care to give some pointers? how do u know she interested in you too..

BTW, is the avatar called Daniel Wu or Sammy888. very yan-dao! many girls target. ;p

Who the hell is Daniel Wu?

Okay I am at work...so no long explanation and grandfather story but here is the fast and dirty version hehe....

Wah you asking someone who never does that at all leh..well not in the last decade at least. For me a lady wants to asked me out..they just ask me out! And if I want to do the same ..I just do ( though usually I am too lazy to...they do the asking) And well I don't see it as a date but it is just hang out. All I can say is maybe this, you treat the outing as a date, you end up more hurt if it goes wrong. You create so much expectation and tension that you or her will ruin it way too early.

Just go out, hang out, do it in a group if that is what you want (I think that might be more what she would need really) then slowly learn to get to know her and she to know you. You want to have a soft landing in case it does not work out..well, that would be easier. If she likes you you will start to see hints of it or sometimes your friends or her friends will catch heh.. so you will get hints here and there.

The best way to sharpen your dating skills.... go out on alot of group outings. Get more interaction with the opposite sex. Learn to get comfy with them as friends and buddies. As you start to get use to them, you start to see things you don't normally will detect. Slight body language, the topics..etc. Just know that not everyone is a born Romeo overnight. Some does it so smooth and quick and for some it can take abit more time. And some times it is just not smooth not becasue you are not doing it right. Sometime it is just that she is not interested so are countering you from going further or she is just not right for you in many ways thus the awkwardness.

Is there really a formula for all these? Nah..not really lah..it just gets easier as you get more comfortable with the ladies. Remember that is just the same way with the ladies towards you too wat. They may like you and also scare or not sure how to get to you and maybe even fear the rejection from you too. So it takes both sides to clap.

Before you know it, it is so easy to ask a girl out that you do it so stealth-like they don't even know it and you find them doing the asking instead. That! is when you know you have the power hehehehehehe.... I am still learning abit about that at my age so it is not always fool proof hahahahahah...

 

[MRSAMO]

Hmmm interesting techniques

Nice girls don't ask guys out, its the ugly ones that do.

 

[sammy888]

Hmmm interesting techniques

Nice girls don't ask guys out, its the ugly ones that do.

wah you think you Tom Cruise to all the ladies too har? heheh..

 

[MRSAMO]

Tom Cruise is a jackass !