Dive with a "captive" buddy, like a girlfriend, wife, or (when you old like me) daughter :bsmilie:. They will either hang around you patiently or are able to harrass you to move on the way others can't.
My daughter hangs around me, but the trick I pulled is to buy her a camera with a housing :sweatsm:. So she is also shooting nearby...
Downside, you get to pay for everything, airfare, diving, food, everything. :sweat: