Hommie said:Interesting about our thinking, the gender differ in way we think. Like Nisa idea of changing the way of how a guy think and guys alway hope that girl who remains the same.
When a guy says 'I love you' once, hope that the message is clear and other side receive it well. A girl got the message, she would want to constantly re-enforce the thought(she want to hear more, everyday). :bsmilie:
So that is why we are called MAN and they are called WOMAN.
Spelling also different.....
Why not put it in a better way....One should try and adapt to one another.
Changing your partners thoughts and ideas will not let lead you into a fantastic relationship. If you all only think about the the girl should be listening to the guys, the girls will think the same as well.
Nisa, you ar right and wrong in your own thoughts. Hommie is right and wrong too. Every human being born will always think for themselves at the beginnning. When they start to stay with someone, suddenly their space is being shared and it becomes a little smaller.
After staying alone for such a long time by yourself, you decide to bring someone into your space. That's when the problem starts.......So to counter react by sitting down and talk about it. Not calling one another weird names....
If you think you do not want your space to be intrude by her/him, then don't get married. It takes 2 to make a marriage work. It's not about you or him/her. It's about both person compromising. There are bound to have some differance from time to time.