2nd model,depend, if condition good,still got warranty then ok,for film slr,a lot good deal in Clubsnap B&S . Also alot selling d50 body, if u want, can buy from them,get the kit lens also, 18-55mm good enough to take a special memory of ur kid,focus fast enough to follow the kid when she run (

long term ) and lighter than most model from nikon (d40 lighter i think ) U also can consider the d40 which is smaller, easier to use but if u serious in this hobby, i not recommend since some lens can't use with d40 and lack some functions.
Cathay photo would be good enough, check the price in the price guide first , remmeber to check warranty, accessories, memory cards when buying ,don't rush. Uncle at Cathay is nice but sometimes if u blur on what u want, they may push u a bit to buy different model.
Sim Lim, i hate,especially for buying camera, and they really got prob with people using film,go there ask about the film body on display and u will hear them. And don't dont honest in selling, even when u know the price , they have many others trick like giving a grey set with no warranty , hide some accessories that suppose to come with the set and ask u to buy separately or trying to ask u to buy some accessories which is overprice , if most the tricks don't work, won't u walk out happily, they may give u face but that happy ending usually not happen.
to Teeras : congratulation. Hope to see ur princess pics soon.