For low cost tripod tht's not 'flimsy' as you've called SLIK as is,
I recommend manfrotto 190 & get a ballhead
manfrotto will cost about $150 (anyone can correct me pls)
a ballhead is about $70. (would recommend manfrotto 308RC, but heard its no longer in production? anyone correct me?)
the above is ideal for you height and sturdy enuff for many cameras up to SLR level.