I'm a newbie and I went straight for the 60D because I like the feel of it in my hands. But despite kind advices from everywhere, I stubbornly went to buy with the kitIII. My advice is forget about the kit lens and depending on the budget and what you usually shoot, I would recommend the 50mm either f1.4 or 1.8 again depending on how deep your pocket is. I have recently added the 17-55mm to my 50mm and it's AMAZING. I can safely say, these 2 lenses are all I need for the time being. But I have to agree with some of the seniors here, learn to use your camera first. There are still SOOOO much I don't know about the camera. My pictures still lack umph and my composition is all over the place. And with the addition of a flash, now I'm confused as hell. Will keep me busy in the next coming years to explore.
Since your mind is made up, just go but never look back and make your money well spent.