So the choices i had made...
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now that you hit rock bottom, the only way to go now is up (life's heading for rebound)! so for now cry if you must, but all this will pass.
but it'll take some1 with insights to that person's life to shed light on the path ahead.
is it wads its called?
because sometimes it works better for those who are close to say it? i am not a counsellor by profession. oso becos much more needs to be done illuminating the path ahead- which is to make good. by giving them some options to work on.
for very complicated lifes- break problems up into simpler bits & work on them, yet making sure the solutions do not further undo the loose ends. the commitment to make good has to be very firm from the start, & the will- unshakeable. for some cases, it may take a long time before a positive change in situation can be felt.
the counsellor oso need lots of patience, skills & knowhow to serve as a guide & 'be there' in times of need. to say more i will be over extending my limited capabilities... :sweat:
Nope thats jsut what i call it. yeah its a loooong and very frustrating process.
if its takes too much out of you, betta look for back-up/ external support. some cases can be very draining. over-extend urself at ur own peril.
can be hard to find good backup nowadays. especially when the "patient" refuses professional help.
hello again, van van the chainsaw man! (ok i know you're not a man, but just ignore that minor detail for now)
we're hijacking the thread to discuss counselling and psychology
hello again, van van the chainsaw man! (ok i know you're not a man, but just ignore that minor detail for now)
we're hijacking the thread to discuss counselling and psychology
hijack? ok.
so when's the next class gathering? :bsmilie:
i have no eye-deer. never been to any of them, they always fall on my busy days (i have alot of those).
i've only been to the one 2 years ago. oh yeah you were there too. AND I GOT PICTURES LOL.
i was? saw ian a few days ago. he looks as black as ever, just taller. next outing we can be official photogs -_-
oooh okay! HAHA maybe Ian is in here somewhere....
eh you were. we all went to billy bombers. i wanted to post pictures but i look like **** so forget it :bsmilie:
care and concern to the masses?? sorry lost me there. haha. but have you really had a friend who said that?
aiya van, i know. he sounds like he has a friend who's said it though. i have had a friend (ok not friend, i kinda hate this person but yeah) who said it and went all suicidal. not fun. haha
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