this issue is very simple to handle:
1. try to read up and learn everything on your own. it takes only a few months to master the technical basics and make it a natural thing to do
2.while doing so, use the cheapest body and the kit lens
3.afetr the few months are over, make sure u have enough money to buy thr best bodies and the best lenses. at this stage, u r already a pro in your own right. you wont have to ask questions fro manyone anymore. u have already learnt everything on your own, made up your mind on what equiptment to use, what style u own. its only those niche areas and "creative" areas like macro, portrait posing that at this stage then u start to tackle
4.simple and fuss free approach ^_^