some ppl enjoy it that way mah.
we must always remember different people different personality. it is common mistake to believe that there is only one way to enjoy travelling, as u r more likely to meet like minded people on the same type of trip, and independent people are more likely to be more opinionated.
packaged tour is not always bad for everyone, it suits some ppl. likewise F&E or rugged round the world tour is also not always best for everyone, it is not just about the freedom, but also the hassle of dealing with things yourself, and tireness of long duration travelling. and all these are also affected by factors like the place u go, and whether travelling alone or with grps, and how good is your agency.
some ppl miss home a little, some ppl miss home a lot, some ppl dun miss home at all, and some ppl dun want to go home... :bsmilie: .... this is such a variable world.
IMHO, both Zoosh and Manwearpants are right!
It really does take away the joy of travelling when one is too calculative versus frugal.
I remember when i was in Middle East, I joined up with a French Arabic living in india and an italian - the 3 of us cant be anymore different. Me- frugal, Italian - laidback. Arabic french - calculative (he claims that he is this way because living in india has make him wary of locals ripping him off)
He once bargain the pants off a banana seller - and when he thought he was being ripped off, argued and demanded for his money back. later, he realised that all the stalls were selling about the same price and he got it wrong and the cheaper bananas were in another city. He was deeply embarrassed and told me he'll hide behind us whenever we walk pass the banana seller .:embrass: all for the price of what.. 10cents? I did think of strangling him at that time!
The plus side - with the 3 different personalities combined and after travelling together for 3 weeks, we worked out a "great act" when bargaining when the hotel owners in Middle East

heheh!
Everyone is different, for sure (thank God for that) and I have nothing against package tours. (i used to go on package tours too, due to time constraint and have never backpack before)
people should know their own reasons for wanting to travel - whatever that rocks their boats.
Only one/two thing irks me - narrow minded travellers who are not opening their eyes, heart and soul to new surroundings, new food, new culture and always expecting things to be run their way or their country's way. People who are not respectful of other people's culture and religion also gets on my nerves - like wearing low sexy top/short shorts in muslim countries etc. (oh yes, i've met them)
All they want is "tick off the list and tell their friends they have been there"
These kind of travellers drives me up the wall!