to put it this way.
while it is correct to say it is you who defines how you want your skin tone to look and yes there is no saying as to what the correct skin tone should be, if you are comfortable then by all means, it is your call.
but the contentious issue here sometimes is not about what you want. I remember once I took part in a grp shoot with a model from overseas. I was using my 5D at that time. She wanted to look at the pics, I showed her. She was slightly taken aback as she commented she looked like a ghost. That was when I learnt that 1) sometimes, you do not determine how the model should look esp where skin issues are concerned and 2) here on CS as someone told me before, slightly warmer colours are a choice preference, which is where this becomes debatable.
so, for me personally, as for the two pics you posted for colours comparison, i will say neither will I choose to post. But if you ask me which is better, I will say 2.
try this for size. Now you are using standard. Next time try portrait setting, try natural settings, etc. see which works best for you. Me, I always use portriat settings. Standard for me is a problem as it can be a tad bit saturated. I like softer skin tones.