Lingerie ad woes

[kriegsketten]

Hard wired??... then why do some couples have woes on their first wedding night? Please explain that... And yes, you can find such marital issues ON the documentary channels (I happened to view one such episode quite some time back)...

Relax okay?

 

[2100]

I buay tahan liao...:bsmilie:

 

[kriegsketten]

I buay tahan liao...:bsmilie:

The problem is ... NOT everyone is as advanced as we think... (otherwise, I do not understand your meaning of "advance")

 

[kriegsketten]

So when you see a pornographic photo, in your pure, pure mind you will see it as nature's act of procreation, with great beauty and fireworks will be going off in your mind in the appreciation of the glory of the wondrous act that is unfolding before your eyes? :thumbsup:

Such statements are nice to say, nice to quote, but really should not be taken too seriously or liberally, though I admit, they make people sound like Zen masters. :bsmilie:

Now now... you're putting words in my mouth again...:nono: Who says anything about pornographic material? Pornography itself is corrupted... You're comparing apples to pears. Sure sure, whatever you say Zen master... :thumbsup:

 

[kriegsketten]

A Great Master will rise from the depths to be the Chosen One and he will teach the human race to reach within itself and manipulate DNA to undergo binary fission. :bsmilie:

Try nice... You love to ridicule others don't you? :bsmilie:

 

[2100]

The problem is ... NOT everyone is as advanced as we think... (otherwise, I do not understand your meaning of "advance")

OT a fair bit here : (sorry, I have been told that I always OT and talk nonsense by going too deep into other things :bsmilie: )

In parts of Indonesia there are quite a few smaller towns etc. Usually the Chinese are quite conservative in their thinking, eg Unlike Singapore, religious beliefs there are followed closely, prayers are held very regularly be it Chinese or Indonesian Muslims. Basic etiquette like greeting elders (how often is that taught nowadays to the youngsters, I think hover around 50% nia). Manners always are taught, eg you definitely do not stick your chopsticks into the rice bowl, not even your cup noodles. :nono: My Indo in-laws were literally screaming when I did that (my parents did not teach me that).

However on this topic about birds and bees, it is very often that shotgun weddings are held there. Even Christians.....it doesn't matter. The thing is - mothers are giving birth pretty young relative to us "developed" countries, it is common to have a toddler by age 21. To put it very bluntly, they **** around more? Is this dirty?

My mum-in-law is just older than me by 10 years.

So that's something for us to think about. :think:

 

[hanzohattori]

Let me add this:

http://www.everythingweird.com/entry/corrupted-mind/

A corrupted mind sees things corrupted...

A pure mind sees things pure...

If your mind isn't corrupted, the image is just that - a lady OR man in scantily clad clothes...

The purest of kids wouldn't be really bothered about such images... But when parents starts to make a big fuss about them, that's when things start to change... innocent minds starts to wonder...

Couldn't agree more :thumbsup:
Do you know that Balinese women used to be topless until the Dutch colonist force them to cover themself ? It was also common for them to have boys and girls bathing together.

To further illustrate my point, I wouldn't mind if my wife/mother/daughter/[....] to go naked in a naturist/nudist area. But I will object if they want to do it here, because :
1. They will be condemned as immoral by the society
2. They will be exploited.. maybe by the same people even
But most probably both.. we are such a hypocrite

I think the society must also held responsible, not just the ad company. Like the saying, 'takes two to tango'.

 

[kriegsketten]

The uneasy mind sees daggers and swords pointed in his way everywhere he goes.

Every shadow has a goblin waiting, every pothole in the road has a gremlin.

Yesh Zen master, yesh yesh :bsmilie:

 

[kriegsketten]

:bsmilie: No, Pure Mind, No No No??? :bsmilie:

Again, I never say my mind is pure... So yours is? Yes, Zen master, you are always the right one! :bsmilie:

 

[SurrealDreamWalker]

Couldn't agree more :thumbsup:
Do you know that Balinese women used to be topless until the Dutch colonist force them to cover themself ? It was also common for them to have boys and girls bathing together.

To further illustrate my point, I wouldn't mind if my wife/mother/daughter/[....] to go naked in a naturist/nudist area. But I will object if they want to do it here, because :
1. They will be condemned as immoral by the society
2. They will be exploited.. maybe by the same people even
But most probably both.. we are such a hypocrite

I think the society must also held responsible, not just the ad company. Like the saying, 'takes two to tango'.

Hanzo Hattori-san, Well said :thumbsup:

 

[kriegsketten]

Couldn't agree more :thumbsup:
Do you know that Balinese women used to be topless until the Dutch colonist force them to cover themself ? It was also common for them to have boys and girls bathing together.

To further illustrate my point, I wouldn't mind if my wife/mother/daughter/[....] to go naked in a naturist/nudist area. But I will object if they want to do it here, because :
1. They will be condemned as immoral by the society
2. They will be exploited.. maybe by the same people even
But most probably both.. we are such a hypocrite

I think the society must also held responsible, not just the ad company. Like the saying, 'takes two to tango'.

What about the african women when they were being filmed? And the men (naked), when they fight each other and ride the bulls? When you see such documentaries... we get turned on? Wait wait... better not offend the Zen master... :bsmilie:

 

[brapodam]

Cool it people, we're started to get worked up here. Kopitiam is for us to relax, not get heated up.

 

[kriegsketten]

No, mine is dirty as sin, the end result is that I am always worrying that people are mocking me and laughing at me behind my back. So I will take offense at everything, from simple jokes, to examples, they are all on my character.. It sucks to be me!

I would love my mind to be purified by someone as white as snow. This black slate has to be wiped clean in order to function properly again.

When it is done, I will see a nude model and have a lamb bleating in my mind... Grazing in the snow on top of Mount Everest.!!!

Oh you too eh? You're no different than me! :bsmilie:

 

[kriegsketten]

Cool it people, we're started to get worked up here. Kopitiam is for us to relax, not get heated up.

On the contrary, I'm having fun! :bsmilie:

 

[brapodam]

Thanks for the reminder...

Eikin's words come to mind.

But I am not eikin, I assure you. I don't even know who that is :bsmilie:

 

[hanzohattori]

Cool it people, we're started to get worked up here. Kopitiam is for us to relax, not get heated up.

Yeah.. we're supposed to enjoy the ad :bsmilie:
And maybe buy some for our wife/gf/grandma.. :bsmilie:
so they will no go bankrupt like borders.. see oni no buy :bsmilie:

 

[SurrealDreamWalker]

Yeah.. we're supposed to enjoy the ad :bsmilie:
And maybe buy some for our wife/gf/grandma.. :bsmilie:
so they will no go bankrupt like borders.. see oni no buy :bsmilie:

:sweatsm:

 

[kei1309]

on a lighter note, i do get asked by some female pals to go lingerie shopping with them xD

 

[SurrealDreamWalker]

on a lighter note, i do get asked by some female pals to go lingerie shopping with them xD

:bigeyes:... you so HAMSUP and that's why.. LOL

i envy you

 

[baggiolee]

You would have then killed the human race. There is absolutely nothing anyone can do as everything's built-in hardwired. Watch Discovery Channel....

it's worth it!!