I just sent out a couple of boxes for some of the people who asked. Postage with box is only $1 thru SingPost. I did this at cost for each person. The pain here was to chase for money, even $19.
So one advise for those people who needs help, do be kind to make it easier on the person helping you. It will make this place a nicer place to be, even when its not Xmas.
No more $13.90, now all $18.00.
For what its worth, Pay-it-Forward sounds like a nice idea.