canon was right, i was giving my bro's face as i'm staying at his house now. already told him both true n false reasons. ranging from i dont want to go becos i no mood, my hubby no mood becos work so hectic, no time to eat and poo let alone go holiday, then to my hubby working on weekends ( Sat) and even to no money to go even and then he offered to pay for us.
false ones.. let me think of somemore but too late liao. i am perhaps very weak and dunno how to say no.