I understand, but you probably agree that it not easy to learn chinese (for someone who comes from a family where no one speaks it, not even dialect)........., I just can't remember the tones, especially in manadarin. Cantonese however sounds easier to learn, though they told me there are six tones! :-(......I am an old man (93 years according to some poll result) and can't remember that well anymore, people say I suffer from Alzheimer, but I also forgot what that was......:-(
Then the writing: this is another big hurdle........though I am pretty much a visual I do tend to remember characters better.........
Hong Kong Sien