Female photographers for artistic male shots

[morbidbear]

no. at that point, we were like deers caught in headlights, too stunned and embarrassed to do anything.

i asked him for examples of what he wanted for his nude shoot, but he didnt give me any. when we met up to discuss about it, the first question i asked was "why do you want to do a nude shoot?" he said he wanted to do it for the fun of it.

when i asked him what he wanted for his shoot, he said "anything".

i even had some photos of poses on the day of shoot and asked his opinion and what he wanted. he said less focus on the face.

only after writing him an email, telling him that he behaved extremely inappropriately, did he say "What I did in my last pose is to make my thing erect which is what I want for my photos. Pls do not have misunderstanding or other misconception."

it's like when a taxi driver asks you how you want to get to your destination and you say "anything". when he asked if you want to go by ECP or PIE. you say "PIE". when you reached your destination, you say "eh, i want to go by CTE leh."

 

[Cheesecake]

no. at that point, we were like deers caught in headlights, too stunned and embarrassed to do anything.

i asked him for examples of what he wanted for his nude shoot, but he didnt give me any. when we met up to discuss about it, the first question i asked was "why do you want to do a nude shoot?" he said he wanted to do it for the fun of it.

when i asked him what he wanted for his shoot, he said "anything".

i even had some photos of poses on the day of shoot and asked his opinion and what he wanted. he said less focus on the face.

only after writing him an email, telling him that he behaved extremely inappropriately, did he say "What I did in my last pose is to make my thing erect which is what I want for my photos. Pls do not have misunderstanding or other misconception."

it's like when a taxi driver asks you how you want to get to your destination and you say "anything". when he asked if you want to go by ECP or PIE. you say "PIE". when you reached your destination, you say "eh, i want to go by CTE leh."

u shot mr.sporean2006? wow

 

[snowspeeder]

Suggestion: Why not just post the person's face here for all to see? Names and nicks can change, but faces don't. Unless there's extreme makeover.

 

[Cheesecake]

Suggestion: Why not just post the person's face here for all to see? Names and nicks can change, but faces don't. Unless there's extreme makeover.

u never know!!! u can never be too sure!!

 

[Red Indian Chief]

no. at that point, we were like deers caught in headlights, too stunned and embarrassed to do anything.
Oh, OK. I'm not trying to defend anyone, just expressing my opinion. If you or your assistant, if any, did not tell him to stop and you say you were like deers caught in headlights, too stunned and embarrassed to do anything, then it means that you are still not mature to take nude photos for man. That's why I agree with ClearHead777 that you should stop taking nude photos for man, until you are fully mentally prepared.

Otherwise in future, you should take BlackBird's suggestion that you tell the model what are the things they cannot do before the shoot.

only after writing him an email, telling him that he behaved extremely inappropriately, did he say "What I did in my last pose is to make my thing erect which is what I want for my photos. Pls do not have misunderstanding or other misconception."

Well, if he explained that he did it to make his thing erect, perhaps that is just what he intented to do. Some model like photos of their thing erected. Moreover, you or anyone did not tell him to stop, he presume it's OK for you. Then I think it's not fair to him.

 

[BlackBird]

And it does not take repeated attempts to amount to sexual harrasement. Blackbird, judging from the way you speak and assuming you're an alpha type guy (probably homophobic too), if a homosexual flashes his privates to you in a locker room deliberately, just once, would you feel outraged? Honestly?

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I agree with you that if a homosexual flashes his private to someone in a locker room deliberately, it's not appropriate, even for the first time. Because it is not pre-arrange that the party can go nude or exposed his private in front of her. However, in this case, the female photographer knows that she is going to do nude shoot where the male model is going to exposed his private for the shoot. That's the difference. On the other hand, if a male photographer were to take a female model nude portfolio, does it mean that the male photographer is a peeping tom ???

 

[Cheesecake]

no. at that point, we were like deers caught in headlights, too stunned and embarrassed to do anything.
Oh, OK. I'm not trying to defend anyone, just expressing my opinion. If you or your assistant, if any, did not tell him to stop and you say you were like deers caught in headlights, too stunned and embarrassed to do anything, then it means that you are still not mature to take nude photos for man. That's why I agree with ClearHead777 that you should stop taking nude photos for man, until you are fully mentally prepared.

Otherwise in future, you should take BlackBird's suggestion that you tell the model what are the things they cannot do before the shoot.

only after writing him an email, telling him that he behaved extremely inappropriately, did he say "What I did in my last pose is to make my thing erect which is what I want for my photos. Pls do not have misunderstanding or other misconception."

Well, if he explained that he did it to make his thing erect, perhaps that is just what he intented to do. Some model like photos of their thing erected. Moreover, you or anyone did not tell him to stop, he presume it's OK for you. Then I think it's not fair to him.

I agree with you that if a homosexual flashes his private to someone in a locker room deliberately, it's not appropriate, even for the first time. Because it is not pre-arrange that the party can go nude or exposed his private in front of her. However, in this case, the female photographer knows that she is going to do nude shoot where the male model is going to exposed his private for the shoot. That's the difference. On the other hand, if a male photographer were to take a female model nude portfolio, does it mean that the male photographer is a peeping tom ???

the same posting style and the same mistake in doing quotations!!!

red indian chief and blackbird are the same person with different personalities?:bsmilie:


clones mux be striked off the list!​

 

[Red Indian Chief]

Cheesecake, don't make false accusation. Look at my previous quotations before u jump into conclusions. BlackBird is a male; i'm a female. Don't insult pple on the net.

 

[Cheesecake]

Cheesecake, don't make false accusation. Look at my previous quotations before u jump into conclusions. BlackBird is a male; i'm a female. Don't insult pple on the net.

oei, wat false accusation? i ended my previous sentence with a question mark, tat isn't accusation. do not accuse me for something which i've not done so.

u female i oso female. :sticktong

i don't think i insulted anyone in anyway, wat say u, unless i hit the right spot? :bsmilie:

 

[BlackBird]

Hey Cheesecakes : Every statement you make is an evidence against you for making unfounded accusation, whether the statement ends with a question mark or not. In addition, you next statement "clones mux be striked off the list!". the meaning of clones means duplicate which imply the same. This is a very good evidence that you are making that accusation. Talk like a gentleman, don't make funny faces like a kid.

When you end your statement with a question mark, that means you are not sure. If you are not sure, don't make any statement. Don't think you end your statement with a question mark you can escape the quilty of making the remarks.

 

[Cheesecake]

Hey Cheesecakes : Every statement you make is an evidence against you for making unfounded accusation, whether the statement ends with a question mark or not. In addition, you next statement "clones mux be striked off the list!". the meaning of clones means duplicate which imply the same. This is a very good evidence that you are making that accusation. Talk like a gentleman, don't make funny faces like a kid.

When you end your statement with a question mark, that means you are not sure. If you are not sure, don't make any statement. Don't think you end your statement with a question mark you can escape the quilty of making the remarks.

:bsmilie: yeah yeah yeah! :bsmilie:
i'm a lady!:embrass:

 

[morbidbear]

Dear cheesecake,

No i didn't shoot mrsporean2006. He was rejected time and time again because his body type wasn't suitable. It's tfcd, i get to choose my models.

The guy i shot was the one who changed his name from Nick to Mark. His was a paid shoot.

I have their photos, but i don't think it's right to post it here. Unless mrsporean2006 contacts me for the fourth time and pretend to be someone else again.

I will take the advice of discussing what's acceptable and unacceptable in a shoot with the model. As well as asking to see some identification, regardless if it's tfcd or paid.

 

[Cheesecake]

Dear cheesecake,

No i didn't shoot mrsporean2006. He was rejected time and time again because his body type wasn't suitable. It's tfcd, i get to choose my models.

The guy i shot was the one who changed his name from Nick to Mark. His was a paid shoot.

I have their photos, but i don't think it's right to post it here. Unless mrsporean2006 contacts me for the fourth time and pretend to be someone else again.

I will take the advice of discussing what's acceptable and unacceptable in a shoot with the model. As well as asking to see some identification, regardless if it's tfcd or paid.

i think it pays to becareful in such instance esp. when dealing with a male model who insists on having their nude photographs being captured by a lady.

ideally the lady photographer should have a male friend around the set to ensure things run smoothly and no funny business from, ok, either party. if the male model object to having a male fren of the lady fotographer around, then perhaps he can bring along a female fren along, for the same reason.

lady photographers have to protect themselves too. i would really feel weird and funny if the male model do not allow any 3rd party in the studio due to reasons such as shy, not ready, cannot get into the mood... etc. then i would rather call off the shoot. be safe not sorry.

glad that morbidbear did the right thing, a pity abt the many disturbing calls that u've got after that sad meet-up. u might want to lodge a police report if the silly prank keeps happening!

:embrass:

 

[sporean666]

in reply to morbidbear we havent meet up at the appointed time at starbucks & she was lookign for muscular guys and not slim ones and what she had in her statements is not factual she had requested for me to bring my pics for her to see but i couldnt make it shew anted to charge 45 for studio shoots so its not really tfcd

 

[sporean666]

http://fenfotography.multiply.com/photos/album/3

 

[catchlights]

in reply to morbidbear we havent meet up at the appointed time at starbucks & she was lookign for muscular guys and not slim ones and what she had in her statements is not factual she had requested for me to bring my pics for her to see but i couldnt make it shew anted to charge 45 for studio shoots so its not really tfcd

are there any commas, fullstop and enter keys in your keys board?

 

[sporean666]

i think shes being childish getting back at me because i couldnt make it at starbucks raffles at 7pm had not recive da reply from her as there was last minute thing going on and i tried to arrange another appointment to meet but she had rejected it she was the one who wanted to see the artistic pics of myself first. i had explained that i wasnt muscular but she still wanted to see how i look like.anyway it was cancelled becuase she said she had found another model
i think if there was no interest she wouldnt have mentioned about meeting up
but anyway i had asked earlier in the phone abuth the malde nude pics what type of pics was she going to shoor and whether it had included frontal and whether her tfcd will show the face , i would prefer it was only butt shots so wasnt there anything wrong in asking what type of poses shes looking for in th emalde nudity tfcd cos i would feel uncomfortbale in doing frontal full shots excpet for the back however she said male tfcd includes everything

 

[Bobman]

also in her .also she had posted artisic or depding how you see it nude pics of herself with her pussy facing th camera http://fenfotography.multiply.com

i think this one by posting her photos here is indeed 'hit below the belt'. do u really need to such an extend to show everyone how she look like????

 

[fotoudavid]

http://fenfotography.multiply.com/photos/album/3

:thumbsd: :thumbsd: :thumbsd: lousy lousy lousy!!!

 

[morbidbear]

thank you for posting my url here mrsporean2006. free publicity for a photographer. if you send my url to The New Paper, i might just get an interview. The Straits Times would be even better. Foreign newspapers would be perfect.

btw, in your attempt to defend yourself, you haven't explained why you kept changing your name and pretending to be someone else.

I won't comment on your defense, as i don't understand what you're talking about. Likewise in your emails.